Angur Baba Joshi, a famous socialist woman of Nepal, once said, " Don't let people judge you. You have to rate yourself, not others." Having said that, I also would suggest you not to goto Nepal because of frustrations in US. U might end up being frustrated in Nepal as well. Even in this environment Nepal has a lots of oppertunities, so hope you will serve your nation while making a good life out of yourself. But do that in a POSITIVE note. This should be your path of choice, not the last resort. Conquere, don't surrender.