Now now hon stop stereotyping. My mom never reads my emails or opens my mail, so I guess that applies to "some" or few parents only. She's also ok with me making male err "boy" friend. Granpa is cool too as long as the male is a gentleman. He doesn't want me to get serious, that's all and I am too young to think of marriage anyways. Tell u what, why don't u have a "talk" with your parents, tell them that their nosing around is making u uncomfortable.