Nails, My suggestion to you would be this; Write your mind and don't bother about the replies. There are numerous readers here on Sajha, who are just silent. Maybe somebody there has read your postings and are shying in disbelief as the quality that you have presented cannot be matched. By the way, why do you take Sajha so seriously? With all due respect to San and for the work he has done to make this community a gentle flow of ideas, I would refute to make this an all important status in my life. It is just the community where you come and share your views. I will leave it at that. Just like Kalanki said, pick out a book, read it if you life, write down if you want to, and get the hell out, check out after two days if there has been a reply, if not forget it, no big deal man comon! crying like a baby! o! where's my reply o! where's my reply!