Ashu has brought up a very important topic. From my experience I have realized that it is very hard for Nepalese to engage in a meaningful discussion or conflicts where differences in opinions occur. We either resort to name calling, or continuously deny agreeing to the other?s opinion even though we may at some point think we are wrong. Sajha is a prime example. There are many such events like, soccer match in ANA, Nepalese gathering in Sydney, or be it any small apartment gatherings, where once conflicts arise, we do not deal with it as a team or in a peaceful way, but rather get aggressive and leave with sour experience. We may all be suffering from either inferiority or superiority complex or may be both.