AeutiKT and harkeDai: I have similar problem too. But she is not speeachless. She just keeps on saying "life is uncertain we don't know what will happen". It is damn hard to believe that she is saying "no". It is also hard to believe that she means "yes". But, we have not stopped taling each other. We frequently talks and I frequently ask the same question and get the same response. How should I take this? Help me gals. I will invite you all in my marriage ............