"well in the first place dun u see it being said over and over again that there was another lady involved in all of this" Of course, but how exactly do you know the wife isn't cheating on the husband? Even if she told Sitara about what the husband did to her, who knows, more than 90% could be exaggerated. Catch my drift now? So how exactly can you cast the husband as the culprit if you don't exactly know the details of the case? To me it's obvious that the case presented by Sitara was one-sided and biased, not to mention in poor taste, as what she did, in my mind was gossip mongering. The bottomline is that you're all jumping to conclusion based on a one-sided view presented by her. Do *you* have any proof that the woman is a saint? Now I hope you understand my POV. Or are you still looking at it through those rose-colored glasses? "You talk about the wife being bad in bed.. the husband cud have expressed this" Hey, I was just giving an example. I concede that I don't know the full details of what happened between the husband and the wife, and for all I know, the wife might have been unfaithful also. The point is that I *refuse* to take side on this issue based on a biased tripe presented by the person who started this thread. These are just rumors to me. Sure, the people are *anonymous*, but a rumor is a rumor is a rumor. What if the husband wasn't really cheating on the wife? Isn't it defamation if that really were the case? Can you furnish me with foolproof evidence that the husband was unfaithful? The difference between me and you is that you have made your opinion, as clear as the driven snow. Me, I am willing to give the husband the benefit of the doubt. As for the rest of your blather, they're all based upon the premise that the wife is right and the husband is wrong. The simple question is, how *exactly* do you know the husband is wrong here? Try to be more critical. It's not a clearcut issue as many of you are pretending it to be. Also, Meera said: "Just like Leary said, we are not equal to men, we r far superior to them. " No wonder Michael Savage has coined a word to describe people like you: FEMINAZI. Superiority huh? Your views are almost Hitleresque, except that you espouse female superiority.