mero bichar ma chai ..hamro mindset huna parcha.. for instance: if you are lazing around the house, everybody will come and say to you..how lazy you are, go and find some work bla bla bla.. ok ..u take your chance, and go and work in a nearby restaurant u know..at least stand on your own feet and make some dough..then the same people will come tomorrow and yell at you.."Thukka! kei kaam napayera, waiter ko kaam garna thalis" so the bottomline is.....noone wants to do any development and people can't stand people doing any development :) [garna pani didainan, gareko ni dekhna sakdainan ]