its either you do or you don't..new yorkers know this best.....sweetheart..dahlin..after every word you speak......... walk in a room full of people..see if you catch someone in your eye..if you do..keep staring even when she/he stares at you...walk around and stand next to the person and say hey i caught you staring at me...hehehe there you go start a conversation.. when the conversation rolls out..then use your touch..maybe fiddle with her hair/or his tie...hold hands..see it really.. don't give no info or name/address unless you wanna end up with nothin..ask if you're attending any other party..and continue...show her/him the place...blah blah blah..........but don't press further.. art of flirting can elead you to a beautiful romance..what is world without love?? for further ques:: Ask Venus the luv goddess herself... and i'm your cupid...SUSHHHHHHHHHHH