It's simple! We know more than you. We are better than you. Therefore, you should do what we say. As you know, only those who have superior,mentally or otherwise, can get American Visa. So, here we are, in America, superior to those other chumps in Nepal who could not get out. Hence, it is incumbent upon us to dictate on you poor fools how your lives should be run. This gives us much pleasure. :-)