Newuser (daju/bhai or mitra) "Just for friendship, if we wish, here I am who you can count. lol." ---> Nice gesture, but your "LOL" was uncalled for. Ho ki ke ho? Anyways, I reckon your intention was genuine. Saheeba, I can only imagine how it must have been. Having said that, I know my imagination & understanding will not do justice to what you and your family must have gone thru & still are. I know you are not looking for any sympathy here in sajha & I respect that. Albeit, can not help but empathize with you and your mom. Anyways, here is a song for you.... दिल ना उम्मिद तो नही नाकाम हि तो है लम्बि है गमकि शाम मगर शाम हि तो है ये सफर बडि है कठिन मगर, ना उदाश हो मेरे हमसफर ये सितमकि रात है ढल्नेको है अंधेरा गम का पिघल्ने को जरा देर इसमे लगे मगर, ना उदाश हो मेरे हमसफर नही रहने वाली ये मुस्किलें के है अगले मोडपे मंजिले मेरी बातका तु यकिन कर, ना उदाश हो मेरे हमसफर कभी ढुंढ लेगा ये काँरवा के नयी जमिन नयाँ आशमां जिसे ढुढती है तेरी नजर, ना उदाश हो मेरे हमसफर My intention is not to offend you in anyway. Hang in there. Life is too beautiful to be wasted without few smiles and some tears. It is just that, tears came a lil earlier to you. Am sure, a wonderful world awaits you. Take care, IndisGUise:)