Well...now i can't stop myself putting my views tooo Let me start with thanking Matrix rose for what c has said...if c really mean what c want as a girl then it is great and no doubt c will definately have a great happy married life. But one thing i would like to put on here... Every person has their wishes as mat rose has ( as a girl n which is really good ) but on the course of life...situation and condition arises where u got to pass through lot of compromises...as nobody is perfect. So here what i would like to say is..before starting the relation and before u deciding your partner...people might have their own abstract but the real part comes ones u r in relation... When u first meet the person u might feel bit special and he might too..but as the time goes..and the excitement of new relation starts vanishing...both will get to know the contradictory part on each other..coz every people will have their own perspective on things..and now matter what no one could find a 100% match.. so i beleive, its really easy to start a relation and give committments..what is most difficult is to keep the relation alive, colourful even after knowing contradictory perception of each other.. At this part Understanding and compromises for the loved one plays a vital role.. I would like to ask everybody a question...why would u think most of marriages in india, nepal n similar countries are succes while western parts have high rate of divorces..It is true that this is just because of greatness and "sahansakti" of women in our country...Here i don't say that woman must do this...and even we people when go abroad then even our relation starts having problem why??.. Well i think now its the time for man to understand...everybody need individualism and so women does, now its not the time of "sita" where whatever u do c will accept it...now the relation stands for equal effort from both side, equal compromises as it comes from both side... As the life goes on, there would definatley come hundreds of ups and downs...both part should learn to kneel down when they need and come to a "break even" then only i think it would be a happy relation even though there are many ups and downs in life... It is definately that most gal wants love, care commitment and above all " HONESTY" but with all my experiance..beleive me these are just the foundation of love...to make the house u will be needing Understanding at the hard situation and compromises from both side when required..these are the ingredients to keep the relation alive and colourful.. so its not the matter of gal, its not the matter of guys..now its time to take things as ...a "person" what a person wants in a good relation.. here i m not at all trying to be offensive or defensive...just putting my views from what i have seen and what i have experianced..some peole may like it while some not...but as i already have said every person has their own perception about everything...I welcome the comments and respect others idea too.. would definately be expecting comments...from hushpupy, matrixrose, rhythm...harkey dai, ardent... and i like the way "seusi dai " represent her views..and i personally feel that is right up to high extent