ms rhythm i don't say i m 100% right...there might be few wrong points on my saying...please don't just pick one point and start commenting on that...look over all the words, whole posting... Well it is a fact that its not only about gals and its not only about boys...its about human attitude...i might have more wrong attitude on gals so i might be saying that and you might have seen only good part of gals but with that neither u nor i can generalize the whole gender... But i raise a question here to all girls including you.... Ask yourself whenever u think of of getting settled ...don't u first think of a settled guy who got partially settled up...have u or any girl ever think like...we are equal and look for a guy struggling for career ...NOOOOO...so where is independency and equality then...? i have seen my friends ...getting break up just becuase thier gf thinks he is still struggling and they found some person who is settled... well all these things are just comments according to the things one has perceived... u might have differet opinion and so do i..depends upon what u have seen and what i did...so things can't be generalize like what u r saying and wht i m.... anyway...sorry gals...if i pinch u all...no hard feelings it just a post.... chao