HI COFFEE AND ARDENT.. THANKS FOR THE ADVICES...THE LAST TIME I HAD OPT..I SCREWED IT UP TRYING TO BALANCE MY LIFE AND WORK..WORK BASICALLY I FLEW TO A NEW CITY AND ENDED BEING CLUESLESS..LIFE..I JUST DIDN'T WANT TO TARNISH MY PARIS HILTON IMAGE....SO I WAS DANCING/WORKING 24/7 ....overBURNT.. SO I LEARNT MY LESSONS WELL..BACK TO NOTHING..RECHARGING MY BATTERIES..TRYING TO BE PLAIN JANE ...SETTLING IN THE CITY..WORKING AS A PAID INTERN...WORKING AS BARtRESS TOO...STUDYING..NOW I'M CREEPING MYSELF OUT...I DON'T HAVE A LIFE..bUT HOPE IT PAYS OFF WELL BY NEXT YEAR..