Very interesting topic indeed are trying to disect a woman's mind???...forget it..its impossible.. let me disect men... The only thing that's in their head is the obvious.sex...ahem....whether the guy is a nice one or a bad guy... why would a girl like a bad guy?? HMM simple..women like IT as much as men do but that's not obvious. With bad guys you can always have the upperhand..F and never try again...explain to the whole world that he was never a good guy in the first place..The bad guys are the better ones ...more adventure more fun adn the more easy to get over.. what comes in package with a nice guy?? YOU've got to be nice all the time IT sucks...we're thinkin will he mind if I go forward and kiss??? what if i don't want him to hang around..what if he drops me right at the doorstep at 5 p.m.(ughhh sooo borin)...what if he says hi to mom and gives her a helping hand....thats sooo dorky and big NONONONONO So what happens to nice girls and nice guys???? if they agree to go out that means the girl is 100 % sure ...good nice girls never want to be bad out in the public(they give the come hither signals) ...bad girls are those who defend their niceness..(they're saying,,stay away boys) So lesson boys..when you go out the next time just be yourself...your pretents to be a rock star or MR NICEY sucks ... as for emotioonal and physical abuses...its a fine line between barbarism and ettiquette..so choose which side you wanna put yourself in.