hmmm cool article.. although I would have liked to see the end of it!.. insomnia and article on women.. what a combo... I think this is promoting some really healthy discussion on gender differences... First for sajha as far as I have seen! Although some of the things the guy wrote about might be semi-true. Attraction is something I dont think either of the gender or any species for that matter can actually explain and say why it happens! In case of animals they are mostly looking for healthy babies... in case of humans with the ability to communicate and think I dont know where that goes! The poor guy in the article sounds jilted way many times... I hope he is reading this. I do feel somewhat sorry for him! Women dont mind nice guys at all.. They just DONT LIKE PESTS... ughhh no one is going to be rude enough and tell you to your face 'disgusting pest! get away from me'... so those poor women suffer all those INSUFFERABLE dates without actually "being attracted" to the morons I mean guys! However, I dont know why many go through being with abusiver partner phase . Seen too many to deny that it doesn't happen. Sadly enough it does! ooh and about the part where you dont understand women or rather they dont make sense... well THEY DO... if you were not thinking like the hormone infested 18 year old in a grown man's mind and body you would actually see some sense into it! But alas! women maturing faster than men is true in all aspects (mostly mentally I mean)! There, I think I have said enough... I think thats the most I have ever written in Sajha... hmm just thought some rational person should give the fair sex's point of view! Oddly enough, I might not make sense to many of you. Dont worry, wait another 5 years or so... sense should start kicking in by then. It not, all the prayers in the world cant save ya! Ciao for now... Wateva!! :)