Posted by: Nepe February 19, 2005
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Pade Queen,
Saw your name and jus wanted to peek.
"jindagi ke safar me guzar jaate hai jo maqaam..". Ah ! I have a beautiful anecdote associated with that song.
Once upon a time in Israel, we were at a bus stop to see off an Indian student (his name was Deepak too) who was leaving for home. Among us were a dozen of Nepali and Indian friends. Among Indians were a girl who was naturally closer to the boy leaving for home, although there was this Hindi-Muslim religious distance as well.
We were waiting for the bus to arrive and the atmosphere was somber. I was thinking of something to cheer up all. I turned to the girl and said, "Parveen, are you sad ?".
She said, "No, I am not, why should I ?"
"Really ?"
"yes, I am fine."
"I can make you cry, shall I ?"
"Yes, why not ? Go ahead."
Then I started to sing the song, "Zindagi ke safar me guzar jaate hai jo maqaam.."
Oh boy ! Before I finished the first line, she started to cry aloud and uncontrollably. Well, on my shoulder !
After my turn of comforting, people took their turn to comfort her. Deepak, apparently shaken by what just happened and by the song as well, gave a full and long hug to Parveen and said, "Don't worry, we will keep in touch and see again."
When it was my turn to see her off a year or so later, I made sure I do not sing that song. It did not work, however. It was a tearful and sobbing farewell anyway.