Your proposition is that in such cases there is no option but to kill the fetus?? In Florida, for example, you can leave your baby at a fire station within a certain time after (s)he is born. You can always try one of your neighborhood adoption agencies. As somebody once put it, "give your baby a mom, not a crushed skull". -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- No I didn't say you got to kill. I wanted to know what you would do in such situation. So according to what I understand, you are not for abortion but you also don't want to take the responsibility? But then again you want to make your gf suffer for 9 months and then make her give the baby away? WOW!! Please correct me if I am wrong. Instead of trying to find solution for women and not even having the gut to take the responsibility as a father...I think first of all it is important to know what SHE wants. It is her right to choose what she does with her body. This right is guaranteed by the ninth amendment, which contains the right to privacy. Ofcourse she has the free will to consider others views and opinions such as that of the father but it is still her decision.