"Neither Confused, nor Indi, nor Sajha nor you have to WAIT for Sitara or Nepe to Write the much wanted words of Condolence in Sajha! " Sitara, I do not wait for any sitara ji or Nepe ji to wait to write any condolence for anyone.:) My simple argument was, a public forum like sajha, should have published some sort of condolence while fully admiring a fund it has created my poor victims. "Indi, surely, I would love to invite you to my class. This in all earnesty. :) " ----> I would love accept ur offer. REally. But i was just wondering if ur done with a learning process and just concentrating of teaching an ignorant ( as u might believe) soul like me, or u think u might have to look in to our sense of belief/understanding as well? Maam', like u said , and as i believe , "to each to their own", but having said that, just the way some ppl might disagree to spend some time to undersatnd likes of US, can we in the same spirit voice our discomfert too?????/ With ur blessing, and ur sarcasm :) IndisGuisE:)