First, it's important to recognize that if are spending time on the opinions of irrational people in society, it's your responsibility to set boundaries. These individual often know how to manipulate your thoughts and trap you in their worthless ideas. Don't let them take up space in your mind.

IF you are a student, focus on getting good grades, securing your green card, making money, achieving success, and supporting your parents.

IF you are a middle-age person who won a diversity visa, think carefully about how to build your life in the US. Don't waster your time working 24 hours in a gas station while letting your teenage daughter roam wild in high school, because life will catch up with you, and regrets, or "kale-jawai", will be waiting.