you are not alone, i m also in same situation . Very high paying but stressful job that i intend to quit and move Nepal after 5 years . by that time my us born kid will be around 8 . i don't have ancestral property as a backup so cannot give up US citizenship for many years MY plans are : -Keeping my 401 , IRA and other savings for my kid which i assume will be around 1 -1.5 mil USD for his future education if he ever plans to come back to usa . -I will be returning with a house in Katmandu and savings made so far . - i cannot work outside USA but since my spouse is in healthcare industry , she can come to usa work fews months a year to pick some extra cash for rest of year if needed and ill take care of my child that time. challenges : 1. child doesn't speak nepali and we live in non Nepali community , i dont know how to teach him nepali . nepali is compulsory in nepal. goal is to settle him in Nepal , uSA will be just be a backup . regarding your children education, there are plenty of schools, depending which part of country you live and the private schools are way better than public schools in USA . only Nepali language will be a problem .