Without full scholarship or working very nominal students can afford to go to US colleges. Our lies/dishonesty start before applying for visa. Why Nepali people stuck in TPS, a good topic to be in Sajha. Someone posted about maintaining US visa by joining college on after another being a "professional student". Whatever advises you had provided everyone can't apply them. I knew a person who married to a US citizen at the same time he married in Nepal too. By the time he got green card and divorced her , he brought his wife and a toddler. They all are adults and had made their choice. All decisions we made and make will not be always favorable.