"Perhaps parents do love their children unconditionally, but every other relationship between or among parties with mind of their own is not unconditional. Except for unconditional love, all relationships are contracts. Every offer has to be met with reasonable consideration. Since offer and consideration are both abstract here, the contract becomes quite volatile when defination of offer and consideration change between the involved parties. " deep bro, k bhaneko ho maile ni bujhena :P you have answered without letting us know the question. Which relation coquers the boundry of unconditional love? is their anything as unconditional love? " The first statement above considerably flirts with idealism. It may not be very difficult to attain that happiness momentarily, perhaps, but is extremely difficult to remain there or maintain such happiness. Relationships are highly emotional or abstract. Even a revered jogi in hardwar can't define his happiness just in terms of how happy his prabhu is with him. He also wants to be a part of that happiness. He wants something in return. " same problem here, you havent defined happiness. Also, you have a big problem with the satement, "Jogi in haridwar cant define his happiness ...." Happiness is Realization. He doenst want happiness, he realizes happiness. So he cannot define his happiness, but he can feel the happiness in him. havnt you heard the quote, "happiness are the memories you remember" and that's what exactly happiness is. p.s Indisguise bro's, reply was emotional, but when i saw deep bro talking abt idealism, I also wanted to say something :)