IndisGuise bro le khatara diyo ahile chahi...bihanai ganesh than ghumera aa ho ki ke ho? "Do not impose your opinion on her. Just think from point of view as well. :).... after all , making your loved one happy, and seeing the joy on their face, is my idea of happiness. Try this, it realy works. When people you love are happy, then you wud find a true meaning of happiness. " Bro, malai sodhene ho bhane the point you make up here is quite subjective and closely floats around idealism. Opinions are what define you, bro. Not imposing your opinions on others is one thing but accepting or even respecting some opinions that clash yours is quite a tough filed. When you start to concede in the name of compromise, you have to be real careful there. When you try to regain, after realizing (the chances are you probably will) you went too far down, the territory you may have relinquished with love becomes a battleground. (the same is true for the other party involved in the direct relationship with you). If you keep thinking from their sides, then what are you left with? Perhaps parents do love their children unconditionally, but every other relationship between or among parties with mind of their own is not unconditional. Except for unconditional love, all relationships are contracts. Every offer has to be met with reasonable consideration. Since offer and consideration are both abstract here, the contract becomes quite volatile when defination of offer and consideration change between the involved parties. "after all , making your loved one happy, and seeing the joy on their face, is my idea of happiness. Try this, it realy works. " The first statement above considerably flirts with idealism. It may not be very difficult to attain that happiness momentarily, perhaps, but is extremely difficult to remain there or maintain such happiness. Relationships are highly emotional or abstract. Even a revered jogi in hardwar can't define his happiness just in terms of how happy his prabhu is with him. He also wants to be a part of that happiness. He wants something in return. That's why he is a jogi of some one , in the first place. He is trying to be in contract with some one in other world. Wants to secure a better place there. yo sansar ma sadhai kich kich. Sacrifice may take love to a spectacular height but being itself (sacrifice) dependent on many variables, it may not sustain there forever.