Posted by: Bennedict May 11, 2023
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Dear, I have no problem whatsoever with offering what I know or can, but if the person across me does not even sound genuine with his intentions, then yeah, you might get some jabs. taunts here and there.
I am not judging you but this is completely based on what you have manifested about yourself over here. First a PHD student, okay then Sajha may not be the right place to talk about the challenges you supposedly say you are facing. If that was the case, no idea why and how the school inducted you as a PHD candidate in first place. See people will start doubting your school itself, its credibility, okay.
Time and again, Sajha denigrates serious posts and questions, and I have been saying this all the time. What sells here, we all know, immoral, incest sex stories, one night stands experiences, frivolous encounters, name calling, conspiracy theories (tons of them) and yeah some immigration discourses. This is not the right place for people (if genuine) to come and ask oh, what should be my thesis topic be or dissertation topic be. There are a lot of other serious forums/ platforms for that and you should know that very well by now since you said there is one and half years to PHD completion.
Second, come on being a PHD student, you should be more worried about your impending dissertation or thesis rather than your immigration status in future. You lack that aura as a devoted PHD student. I agree most likely, just like everyone here, you also want to stay here and immigrate, that is okay, but look at your questions, "I am sick, what is the best way to get that coveted green card. I am having tough time staying in F1 visa now". This whole statement of yours is weighing you down, man!
You do not have to care what I said here, I am just recounting how you are coming across as to me or may be other people with "sane minds". I do not know everything about you or whole scenario like your sickness, where you are etc. but the my responses are based on the situations as presented by you, yourself.
Not spreading any negativity, but just take it as a nudge to do some inner reflections on how you have been manifesting your situations to us.
Peace!