My wife was working in hospitality industry but since pandemic she been working entry level IT (Qa/ba) but either way c not been able to generate more than 40 K working full time so I asked her stay home . My work is pharmacy related, I have a better job offer in california but everything comes up with a the price . My base pay is less than 200k even in cali , I'm hoping to just come around 200k with bonus and everything but it's not guaranteed. Median home price range is around 1.2 million in that area n with this income I feel like I'll be under poverty line . I need to move cali for my career enhancement