Wow! what a thread, let me also contribute few lines to it :) neparu, thankfully u asked who is sitara not who is karuna chettri, nor i wud have had to much diffuculty in answering ur question. :) Now, being a sajhatie, its my responsiblity to help my fellow sajhatie to solve his querie abt a sajhaties..so, lets explore our sajhatie Sitara from top to bottom, and left to right...Common guys, Lets go 3-D 1) So, who is Sitara? I asked the same question to myself when i first logged into sajha. Well it happens, Sitara is a lady, a pretty lady, who writes poems/stories here in sajha, and also knows many many difficult englihs words. The most interesting part about her is, she's a teacher, who loves going to vacation on summer. She is also a praise-able inventor, she invented a PEN here in US. Ooh, and she is also a big big gambler, who has Mastered the art of baiting. Sitara also does some yoga, she says she wants to be like a rubber, which can be streched a lot. Neparu dont worry, you are thinking in a right direction, sitara is definately a all rounder lady. 2) Why arent, sajhaties like confused and Neparu, famous like SItara? The information I have collected from sajha isnt suprising, most sajhaties happen to be straight males, like myself, who admire chwakk, Proud and Calm women. And Sitara, seems to consist all top 3 quality in her. She is obviously chwakk, we can witness guys going crazy on her and writing such lovely shyari's. She is also proud woman. She is a Proud Sajhatie, who dedicates her writings to the spirit of Sajha! and enjoys the dignity that sajha has crowned on her, thats why she hates topic like, bhedo and Sitara. And at the end, no one can deny sitara is a calm woman, her ground doesnt even shake if she's called, SHIT-TARA, Kalam wali bhai or my darling. She is just calm. ooh yah, let me add this line too, confused and neparu, arnt famous like sitara because they just dont write good as sitara..simple :) 3) Who loves / hates Sitara, and Who does sitara love/hate. From Rusty to Oys, From Czar to Nepe, From Kalanki to AX, From myselt to moneyminded, From GP to Gorkhali dogg, From Prem Charo to Parmendra, From San/DP to rest of the sajhaties, everyone has a reason to love and hate sitara and she has her own personal reason to love and hate each one of them. Opps! the word personal is here, that means privacy so lets not go out of sajha and let us just stay inside sajha, so lets move to next question. 4) Does Sitara seek attention? NO! sitara doesnt seek attention NOW, because she gets attention all the time, and now the question arises, does sitara enjoy getting attention. Oh coomon, dont be so naive now, if she didnt like attention, wud she be answering ur post Neparu? oh coomon, dont be so naive now, if she didt like attention, wud she stick her pic on the web? 5) Why is Sitara still active in sajha? I do not know that either! PPl like Czar, and Nepe have complained a lot in here and they seem to be very particular on how they choose their thread. Sitara, is diff lady, she hangs out with every sajhaties, atleast SHE TRIESS.... She doesnt seem to center herself on particular issue, she is broad, she likes talking abt Love, Pedro's jokes, Behe, cute ppl, memory lane, politics and Dumb Women. So, yes, she's a intellectual who is very very broad than czar. 6) WHY is confused writing this? WTF!!!! IF deepak Khadka can write a pome abt sitara, can i not say some things abt sitara. GET LIFE!!! disclaimer: what i wrote above was just a little paragraph, only my opinion abt a particular individual/s. No privacy of the ppl mentioned above have been hunt down. All of the mentioned things can be acessed publicly. This is just paragraph, that is meant to be humorous. :)