Hurray bro, I know u use to live near my family or some where between khari ko bot..........U have seen me grow up in proverty and going to " Dhunge dhara to get water from there" I am still same .........i have good job but what i have learnt is love is not everything, Love dosenot give u food and job. I have became practical. ..............my dad was asshole but i have forgive him now. He was saying sorry to me last week for what he did? I am taking care of my brother education as well coz i take it as challlage but now he wants to help me? He has changed and he has returned home.......for us........dude every couples and family goes through this kind of life but we are happy to have open family ......today, we known about him everything. I ensure one thing , if i choose gal out of 6 she is going to be most happieset person in life..........................................I cant blame my father for everything as well...........he was oversea for us to provide food so he was not in contact with his wife physically for 3 yrs so he had relation with other women. It is my mother fault to take it as taboo as well. If my mother was good in bed then it could have no problem........there is prob from both side...today they are getting together.........it is great news....we never annouce our parents were divorce coz of reputation on society