I agree With TPS2GC. Stay chill, don’t text or tell anything even on phone or social media. If you all been living separated for 6-7 months, see if you can work it out. I know it’s better to fix it than break apart. Once u are divorced in the state, you have to include the ex spouse name in all your immigration files, citizenship forms, passports and so on. Any immigrants who divorced here is always a red flag for officers to dig more, and u know they have binders of binders of data from the day u landed here. Man you gotta remember their date of birth and name all your life. It looks like her family is creating drama. Don’t mess up your immigration status and stay out of any trouble. Sometime gal will blame you torture or physical abuse, file restraining order and make your life hell