i think the real problem with us nepalese is that we try to demote our status in the society by talking crap about ourselves, in reality thats not true. thats why other people like dhotis try to look down upon us. I really cant stand those folks who are actually nepalese living in tarai, so they look like north indians. If they meet indians and are asked where they are from, they say they are from india.They think being called an Indian is so prestigious. For me, i see them as nothing but bunch of hairy loud trash. Sure India has developed a lot compared to nepal. but remember every country has its down time like america went through great depression in 20's, india also went through "raj" from britian.Someday will also come for nepal when everything will be alright. keep faith.