You guys totally misunderstood the points I am making. So lets go to the bottom of the issue. I want to make a point clear to you. I am not interested in what an individual neprican does. What I believe is that this Sajha site is basically to discuss the issues of Nepali Diaspora. so I am raising the issues of Diaspora as such. While searching for Amateur Astro Clubs in the USA through the Net, I got this site. So decided why not discuss some of the issues with you guys. Its totally wrong, therefore to assume that I am jealous of you guys, or the grapes are sour or I failed the DV. I am not a proletarian here in Kathmandu. There is nothing for me to be frustated. We nepalies have been too small for big things and too big for small things. Thats why our country could not move forward. Thats why our fellow citizens all the time preferred to going abroad. You have seen millions of Lahure Kanchhas have gone to India for Bhanda Majhne Kamko Lagi. So cleaning dishes and restaurants has been our national occupation. Now my friend who recently came from Wisconsin after staying there for five years told me that most nepalies work there in Indian owned restaurants. Great! What a similarity between Lucknow and Wisconsin. This was a great enlightenment for me. And I just wanted to know the reasons. Why the Indian Munim should be the master of the Nepali folk from Lucknow to Wisconsin? Why the Nepali Diaspora is not making progress as Indians or Bangladeshi counterparts? What is the issue here? Being a practitioner of socioligy, I wanted to know this issue. There are other issues also which need to be discussed, but you have totally ignored or overlooked them. Few years ago Dr Durga pokharel gave an interview in Nepal Magazine here in Kathmandu, and informed us that most nepali girls, who first marry a neprican, later divorce mostly to marry a Bangladeshi Musulte. I just wanted to know, being a 'student' of sociology, what are the factors behind this. Are we nepali men physically inferior than these musultes and that's why nepali women, as soon as they get the opportunity, break the marriage. That means you nepricans and we Original orientals all should be painfully aware about our physical shortcomings and take measures to improve the situation. (Hahahaha..) My friend also noticed in US that most kids of Nepricans are not straight. Why is this? Is this genetical issues or is it that you guys have totally become moneyminded and dont take care of the children, and as a result these kids dont get proper counselling in due time??? these are the kind of questions i wanted to discuss if that is allowed by Sajha constitution. I am not trying to intrude into your personal life and your HOLY PRIVACY. DYAMNNN Guru!! Appki taraf se koi Jawab Hai????