@ujl i agree that it is always easier said than done. But, we should know when to stop talking and start taking action if we want change in our situation. Usually the action doesnt have to be bigger. Just identifying a problem will do.

To answer your question - why haven't I married a dalit woman? Although I haven't married a dalit woman, but I married a woman from a different country and religion. The marriage didn't work due to many differences. But the experience taught me few things about myself. I think it helped me to be more open. Now, I am happily married with a woman from my own caste. All I want to say is if talking is not helping, taking action may help. Atleast it will help us to move on!