What is better; to represent the head of a deer or the tail of the tiger. One thing that Bizare wrote was touching " You don't chose parents they are chosen for you". Imagine the co-incidences that works to make an individual; a reknowned endocrinologist rightly remarked "" It is no surprise that so many mating fail to yield progeny-It is miricle that inspite so many odds still progenies are produced". Hence, why are we made to be who we are--to follow the life as a cheerfull leaf in a downward following stream, or to create trubullence and rebel for good or bad. However, it is not without a purpose that you were born the way it was, you change and modify yourself you reap the rewards and along with it pay the price. Father John-s, your nasty remark about Darz girls not loving boys from Nepal cannot be generalized, afno bela ma hamra pane fan following hune garthe Daz ka keti haru maz (no hard feelings, and jealosy). Huna ta afu Darz bhanda purba bata ayeko hunale pane huna sakcha, tara sauta ko ris le logne mathe mutnu na bhayena ne, ki kaso. Anger and other vices are the demons and our ability to control them is the real God, hence we ourself are God, because we are part of God (is not a speck of gold a gold, a drop of water; water), hence Yin-Yang balance and harmony within and outside oneself is the heaven here and everywhere.