bro im MA now, much happier seeing my kids growing kind, active, social, n caring** at this age nearly 35, i take them as my big assets**much respect for fellows living there, i started my american life living those cities u named..i had option so i moved, can't imagine kids growing there, social n outdoor activities nearly zero...infact its a city in desert...people grow depression fast,,i was going to be depressed**hate, crime, rude people, depressed frustrated but bit cheap** i'm still kind of amused after spending so much time in us( i assume ) what makes u think move there, is it like u have some relatives settle there n u wanna move to them, i don't feel ur moving in search of cheap places to save some $$$( assuming)