Hi moneyminded and fellows! I don't know much about saying anything comes of with suggestion, I guess, the true love comes only once in your life time, so don't get married soon. Tell them that you have to get married to Kali for getting greencard, at first, then after having greencard you will go for real marriage with a Nepali girl. Don't forget our cultures!!!!!!, we do marry first then love that your mum knows. But, you live in the place, the USA, that you love first, then marry. It is your future, you have to decide........... don't argue to everybody, they probably kidding around. If you are not allowed to wait by your family just show them your black-GF's snaps............ thank you