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 One of the reasons Nepalese men act so uncivilized is because women like you push their buttons

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Posted on 11-18-11 6:41 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Posted on 11-19-11 6:56 AM     [Snapshot: 861]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Juggy Dai,

Thank you for your wise words. Dai, what is the most positive way that a new girl (with a girl's name) who has joined sajha could come and have a conversation with the men without being ridiculed, made sexual jokes and put down in any and many ways?

Dai, what does a girl have to do to be loved, protected and respected in sajha in a positive way? Do you feel it is even possible? You seem like quite the optimist....but you are making me question perhaps you are a bit naive.

With all respect,
Your little bahini,
Mridula
 
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Posted on 11-19-11 8:57 AM     [Snapshot: 985]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Mridulaji, ‎"If everybody loves you, something is wrong. You can't please everybody" -Paulo Coelho And yeah, I am naive. Hope you are more wiser than me. Whatever I needed to say I have already said and it already covers what you are asking again and again and again. Anyways, you have nice weekend. and this is last time I ll be replying to this lame o thread.
 
Posted on 11-19-11 11:07 AM     [Snapshot: 1118]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Juggy Dai,

Namaskar! Bhauju lai pani.
 
Posted on 11-19-11 12:07 PM     [Snapshot: 1174]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I am another silent reader of sajha and comment rarely... this thread seems interesting and wanna say something to the girl named mridula (hope not a guy in girls name) ... instead of asking Juggy so much.. why can't u think urself about attitude of people towards ur writing/thinking? ... i think the best answer is "as you sow, so shall you reap".....
I hope you will not take it as hostile reply....
 
Posted on 11-19-11 1:00 PM     [Snapshot: 1237]     Reply [Subscribe]
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moss, you coming out of grave..how's thing there? 
mridula is 11 years old, or even if she's past 26 years old, she has a brain of 11 years old..
look how she writes..
rasika has never been to a man, so she's here online commenting on men.. She is also unknowingly suffering from this syndrome called HPD(Histrionic personality disorder)

copy/paste below src: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002498/

Histrionic personality disorder

Histrionic personality disorder is a condition in which people act in a very emotional and dramatic way that draws attention to themselves.

Causes, incidence, and risk factors

The cause of this disorder is unknown. Both genes and early childhood events are thought to contribute. It occurs more often in women than in men, although it may be diagnosed more often in women because attention-seeking and sexual forwardness are less socially acceptable for women.

Histrionic personality disorder usually begins in early adulthood.

Symptoms

People with this disorder are usually able to function at a high level and can be successful socially and at work.

Symptoms include:

  • Acting or looking overly seductive

  • Being easily influenced by other people

  • Being overly concerned with their looks

  • Being overly dramatic and emotional

  • Being overly sensitive to criticism or disapproval

  • Believing that relationships are more intimate than they actually are

  • Blaming failure or disappointment on others

  • Constantly seeking reassurance or approval

  • Having a low tolerance for frustration or delayed gratification

  • Needing to be the center of attention (self-centeredness)

  • Quickly changing emotions, which may seem shallow to others

Signs and tests

The health care provider can diagnose histrionic personality disorder by looking at your:

  • Behavior

  • History

  • Overall appearance

  • Psychological evaluation

Like other personality disorders, histrionic personality disorder is diagnosed based on a psychological evaluation and the history and severity of the symptoms.



 
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Rasika didi,

It is so encouraging to see the quality of leadership that will be guiding all of our futures in Nepal. Really, I am encouraged. I feel such hope. Feel so safe in these hands. I feel I can just let go and relax and just be at peace. What do girls like you and I need to worry about with such men protecting our sisters and their children in the years to come?

Could you and I have anything to feel jittery about with intellectuals like BitterTruth looking out for our interest? I feel so overwhelmed with confidence in his leadership abilities. He sort of reminds me of Baburam Bhattarai. Do you remember Baburam Bhattarai's confidence and eloquence before he had power? My goodness, you would think the guy had achieved something at the level of Prabal Gurung or Pukar Malla. A man with such irrudition. He made me have such big dreams for Nepal. But really, what kind of a leader did he turn out to be once he actually got power?
 
Didi, I don't know about you, but I have such confidence in BitterTruth's leadership qualities, I want to see him as the next Prime Minister of Nepal. I feel he could do what Baburam Bhattarai couldn't.

What do you think?
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Posted on 11-19-11 1:39 PM     [Snapshot: 1298]     Reply [Subscribe]
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mridula,
I'm sorry if that hit you where it mattered.
I didn't wanted to be mean.
Sometimes, ppl don't know what they're going through but when they know it, they can control it.
It happens you know that's why I wrote about HPD. I wrote could be. I'm not a doctor but I know about lot of syndromes. I've read books upon books on them. I just tell ppl, could be this, It's upto their free will to take whatever next steps they want to.

and mridula, that's the worst 'gaali' you've ever thrown at me.
"prime minister of nepal"
"guddpaak kha"
these are new way of "GAALI"

testo gaali chahi malai nagara , please.

baru timi sanga mukh-mukha laagdina.. bho?

yaha sabbai boka haru chan, timi boka haru sanga mukh-mukha laagi ra chau.. hiteshi ko nata ley bhaneko....

I never meant to offend you females.



 
Posted on 11-19-11 1:48 PM     [Snapshot: 1319]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Rasika Didi,

Such love, such care, such compassion. Did you see what I'm saying Didi? So I completely disagree with your assessment of BitterTruth Dai. If a person with his intelligence and his heart is not made Prime Minister of Nepal or a United Nations representative for Nepal, at least, who else would be?

Honestly Didi, I'm very tempted to send his name in for a Nobel Peace Prize. You don't disagree do you?
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Posted on 11-19-11 2:15 PM     [Snapshot: 1353]     Reply [Subscribe]
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mridula,
who are you addressing to? where is Rashika? she's not even replying you..

are you alright? sister

 
Posted on 11-19-11 2:24 PM     [Snapshot: 1362]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Rasika didi,

Do you see? Bitter Truth Dai is always looking out for me. Always testing to see if I'm alright. I cannot even make a gesture without his concerned look caressing me with such tenderness, asking me how I'm doing. I feel such affection from him. I am at such peace to be protected by a man like him. Oh, if only all sisters had older brothers like Bitter Truth to protect them in this harsh and cruel world, how safe all women would feel?

So Didi, I completely disagree with the approach you took with our brothers in Sajha. Is that any way to deal with your brothers? I'm sorry Rasika Didi, but on this, I am going to have to take my own path.

Rasika Didi, my only regret is that I didn't meet Bitter Truth Dai a little sooner, otherwise it would have been my great pleasure to have celebrated Bhai Tika with my brother. Oh, to have lit the diya and to have rotated it around his face, to see the reflection of the light off of his smiling face. To then have put a garland of marigolds around him. And then to have put the seven colored tika's on his forehead one after another. And then to have offered my brother sweets and fruits.
What more could a younger sister ask for than to have a brother who has sworn to love and protect and care for her and to check up on her regular basis?



 
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^^
histrionic !!!!
 
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Posted on 11-19-11 2:40 PM     [Snapshot: 1395]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Rasika Didi,

My brothers are so kind to me. But they also like to tease me. *I smile* What can I say? Doesn't a loving brother have the right to tease their sister sometime? Of course they do. They've earned that right from all the loving things they do for us.

Their teasing is just one sign of how close they feel to me.

Gosh, I must be one of the luckiest girls in the world to have so many brothers with so much love to give.
 
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@behoove_me
lmao!! maile nii tehi bhanekoo hahahah
 
Posted on 11-19-11 2:46 PM     [Snapshot: 1413]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@mridula!!!
enough of your shit talks!!!! you aint going to impress anyone here!!! stop being a hypocrite!!!
 
Posted on 11-19-11 2:58 PM     [Snapshot: 1422]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I like you mridula,
just for fun, you said me your brother, doesn't matter if it's real or not,
but the sister,word itself , I take it seriously..

okay, guys stop shitting on her else I'll enraged you all falkers out there :D

(is that what you wanted me to do mridula, is that your power? )
I'm happy to do that :D lol

 
Posted on 11-19-11 3:04 PM     [Snapshot: 1443]     Reply [Subscribe]
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hetterika bhaitika gaisakecha!! hahahaha
 
Posted on 11-19-11 3:09 PM     [Snapshot: 1451]     Reply [Subscribe]
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tei ta kurai kura ma malai bhaitika lagai saki..
aba k garnu..
I can't see anyone negating her now :D 

 
Posted on 11-19-11 3:12 PM     [Snapshot: 1457]     Reply [Subscribe]
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bichara bolna nasakera dai banayera chodyo !! lol !!! je hos sajha ma niii time time ma nautanki haru dkehinchan lol!! sry bitter timro baini lai nautanki bhane !! :p

 
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stop teasing mrigula
 



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