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 काठमाडौँको बाटोमा जिस्कायो भनेर केटिले बाटोमै थप्पड हान्दा
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Posted on 02-16-17 1:30 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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I slapped a guy today at sorakhutte today at 5:40 pm. 

Because not only was he teasing me right from durbarmarg all the way till sorakhutte he was also using some offensive word like 'randi#%*'. When I seemed to notice, he and his friend at front who was riding the scooter speeded up. I followed their speed and luckily vechiles were stopped on a diversion lane on sorakhutte chowk. I could not wait any longer to teach them a lesson. They looked terrified and shocked once I stopped my scooty right middle of jam and went towards them. I slapped him, the one sitting at back. 
Traffic police came for inspection/rescue/enquiry and told us to park our scooters. I told them everything and the guy was denying the fact. But I was damn sure that they were teasing me, looking at my thighs, staring at me and making me feel uncomfortable. I was pulling my t-shirt right then after they started giggling and saying words at durbarmarg and at that very moment I could have met with an accident because I was riding only with one hand and pulling my t-shirt down by the other. I told everything to police. Those guys were to be sent to police station. The one whom I slapped was begging to forgive that he was an IT student and had exams. I forgived them after they caught their ears and said sorry to me three times and promised never to do it again.

AND like the proverb famous in India "Victim is Victimized everywhere", my mom after hearing everything that happened, responded that I shouldn't have done any #lafada and showed me the fear of consequences for eg: u will be followed and killed or anything can happen to u. I felt terribly bad for my mom's mentality who wants me to study Social Science and do a UN job. I chose social science not for the sake of easy passing of semester. But to bring change, see change, make change happen. Change does not starts until u fake the reality with ignorance and accept the falsity.

WHY IS EVETEASING ACCEPTABLE, RAPE, ASSAULT, HARRASMENT ACCEPTABLE? AND SELF-DEFENSE, DEFENDING, STICKING WITH HUMAN RIGHTS AND TRUTH IS DENIED? 
Do you guys think I dressed in an improper way that was very provocative for men which would automatically turn them ON? 
Damn this society! 
 Change happens from you, your thought, it happens from a person within.


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Posted on 02-17-17 5:33 AM     [Snapshot: 560]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Tero Thai dekhayera hidne, ani hernu nahune. Kagati katera agadi rakepachi nani ryal timro bau le ni jharcha. Jatthi haru. Kasailai nachayeko attention chaine, fashion garnu parne, ani kura chai aunty jasto, nahasao na randi ho. Jasari taile thai dekhayera hidne tero right ho, agadi Pareko Thai herne hamro right ho. Aajhai chilayo bhane nangai hid.
 
Posted on 02-17-17 5:49 AM     [Snapshot: 569]     Reply [Subscribe]
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if that cop knew law any better, he should have arrested your bitchass. It's a crime to raise hands, it's not a crime to watch and scream sexual words which might have been directed towards anyone. Know your laws bitches.
 
Posted on 02-17-17 12:42 PM     [Snapshot: 1234]     Reply [Subscribe]
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"Kagati katera agadi rakepachi nani ryal timro bau le ni jharcha."

Ryal jharnu is your prerogative. You can look, that's not the issue. But when you squeeze the lemon in your mouth- that becomes an issue. When you start calling her names, that becomes an issue.

While I agree that the girl was in the wrong to raise hands - you can't apply double standard, if you don't want to get beaten back don't start the violence. But the guy shouldn't be calling a girl a Randi just because she is dressed provocatively.

 
Posted on 02-17-17 1:00 PM     [Snapshot: 1285]     Reply [Subscribe]
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BJ, define dressing provocatively.

Just coz you see women's skin means dressing provocatively?? You narrow minded no good SOaB. Go live in middle east. Both of you. Why do you think OP is at fault?
 
Posted on 02-17-17 1:03 PM     [Snapshot: 1309]     Reply [Subscribe]
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nayapidi. Read what I wrote. If you don't understand ask somebody to translate it for you.
 
Posted on 02-17-17 1:39 PM     [Snapshot: 1382]     Reply [Subscribe]
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no you read again.
 
Posted on 02-18-17 10:42 AM     [Snapshot: 5112]     Reply [Subscribe]
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अरुले तेस्को खसी बनाइदिएको भए अझ बेस |

तर बुझ्न नसकिएको कुरा चै त्यो मैन बत्ति बालेर आइसक्रिम हो कि के खाएको फोटो चै टास्नु पर्ने कारण बताई दिनु भए बेस हुन्थ्यो |

 
Posted on 02-18-17 10:44 AM     [Snapshot: 5127]     Reply [Subscribe]
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