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 sajha.com homepage loads ridiculously slowly
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Posted on 10-05-11 8:41 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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San dai,


I totally understand and respect that sajha.com is your money making venture and so you would like to put maximum amount of advertisement on your site. I appreciate the services that sajha.com and I inturn try to provide what little content that I can. But dai, your home page is loading slower and slower. I love that music clip that plays, for example. But couldn't we have a link that we could click to play it instead of it playing automatically, please?

It's just coming to this site (sajha) is getting annoying because of how long I have to wait for it to load just to click links and and such. I'm not sure if it's just me or any one else is having this problem too. 

Take it the right way ok dai? I do appreciate the hard work you put into this site. 
Babal Khate

Posted on 10-05-11 9:48 PM     [Snapshot: 25]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Posted on 10-05-11 10:16 PM     [Snapshot: 47]     Reply [Subscribe]
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 I reckon you're on the minority on this.... 
Posted on 10-05-11 10:23 PM     [Snapshot: 53]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Use isajha.com
Posted on 10-05-11 11:53 PM     [Snapshot: 80]     Reply [Subscribe]
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It loads really slow over here too! This should be fixed. The dashain dhun plays automatically everytime and I don't like it. It's good for few times but not always.
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 bro haru 24sai ghanta sajhama basne hola ani computerlai dikka lagera nakhulya huna sakchha. meroma ta fata-fat khulchha.
Posted on 10-06-11 9:27 AM     [Snapshot: 138]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Hi Babal Khate and Ghorle,

I am surprised to hear that sajha is taking a long time for you guys to open. Below is a video demo of how fast it loads for me. Even though the video shows about 2 seconds, normally it would be from 2 to 6 seconds for the home page. The other pages should load faster since they don't have as much content as the home page.

I can think of four things that could potentially affect your load times

1. Internet speed
2. Browser plugins
3. Computer speed
4. Around 2 am server time there is a scan going on so it might be a little slow during that time.

Perhaps try disabling your browser plugins, or download a brand new copy of Chrome and see how it works. I would like to work with you guys till we fix the problem because I remember back in the days when sajha was very slow due to web hosting companies shared hosting and it was painful to try to browse sajha, but since we moved to dedicated hosting, the site has been a lot faster. And I want to work with you guys till your speed problem is resolved or understood.

Thanks and Best Regards

Posted on 10-06-11 9:30 AM     [Snapshot: 142]     Reply [Subscribe]
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It loads fast in mine too but this whole freaking homepage is so unpleasing to the eyes ! I have to minimize this whole freaking window to sneak into Sajha from work.

Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr !

And San bro, are you taking that challenge to add an IGNORE Feature in this beautiful site ?

It will be my wettest dream !

And the first person to be ignored in my list would be none other than


Posted on 10-06-11 9:48 AM     [Snapshot: 159]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Also another question to the "Boss of Sajha"

Where in your Sajha policies say that Sajhaites are not allowed to write about their beautiful stories experienced in their lives ?

Where in your rules and regulations does it say, Sajhaites are not allowed to talk about themselves?

Where in your guidelines does it say, Sajhaites can't make this sites about themselves ?

Where in your standards say that one is not allowed to freely put opinions, criticisms on others'  views, ideas and philosophies ?


Are you writing a new policy forbidding all of the above ?


Posted on 10-06-11 10:43 AM     [Snapshot: 184]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Mr. Numero Uno Nas

When I say I don't want sajha to be about any one person, I also mean that I don't want sajha to be about me. That is why I try to keep my responses in sajha to a minimum unless I feel it is warranted for sake of general information that can relate to other sajha visitors.

And this is not something that I made up just now. If you read the "About Sajha" page that I last updated around 2003, then you will see the paragraph there.

Another unacceptable use is when someone decides to use sajha.com to fulfill his/her personal propaganda by CONTINUOUSLY posting the SAME or SIMILAR content in almost every other thread. This kind of behaviour has its toll on visitors to sajha.com since it begins to alienate visitors who do not want to see the same thing over and over and over again. Hence in order to retain the freshness and vigor of the site, such personal propaganda will be considered for blocking. This includes incessant voicing of personal discontent toward certain user or users. Such personal matters need to be resolved through personal communications such as e-mail or telephone.

Towards the end of the passage, it says "personal matters need to be resolved through personal communications such as e-mail or telephone" which means posting private messages to private people should not be posted in sajha. What you talk to someone on the phone giving any romantic or sexual innuendos should remain within your and that person's personal communications and not as a showcase for you to boast your romantic conquests. Sajha is not here for anyone's self promotion or for anyone's personal propaganda of self righteousness over a continued period of time. Once in a while everything is acceptable but continuity of this kind of behavior has it's toll on the 99% of the people that you have clearly shown your disdain for. I have already made my view clear that sajha is not here to serve people who seek personal entertainment at the expense of others.

Everything is acceptable in sajha but EXCESS of anything is not good.

Posted on 10-06-11 11:54 AM     [Snapshot: 219]     Reply [Subscribe]
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"What you talk to someone on the phone giving any romantic or sexual innuendos should remain within your and that person's personal communications and not as a showcase for you to boast your romantic conquests. Sajha is not here for anyone's self promotion or for anyone's personal propaganda of self righteousness over a continued period of time."

He He He...

Hello dear brother San!

Do you know what IGNORE means ?

हग्ने लाइ लाज छैन, हेर्ने लाइ लाज भो ?

When two people who are happy sharing their feelings for each other in a thread created by themselves, why people have to get inside that thread?

Are those "romantic or sexual innuendos" right on your face  or do you have to open my thread created for my beloved and then read them. Am I making you read my thread forcefully ? Why do you even bother to peak ? Why don't you mind your business and leave that thread alone?

Oh No ! You want to peak inside the thread of "Mr. Numero Uno Nas". I could understand. My work is work of art. Everybody is curious. Everybody wants to see what I write.

But you Sir, you are the BOSS. You like to show who the Man is here. You want to show, look this is my property and if I don't have the "talents" (if you kindly allow me to ), you are not supposed to show it here either in my property, you are not allowed to show your "psudeo intelligence" in my property.

Either people don't know how to ignore or either they live in a miserable existence that they have to bite others when they are enjoying themselves perfectly in a thread created by themselves.

"Sajha is not here for anyone's self promotion"

Who is promoting here ? Who is doing self promotion?

Me ?

Hello !!

Talking about my beautiful life, what I have experienced in my life in a beautiful romantic stories is a self promotion, in your dictionary?

Putting beautiful videos about my real life and sharing it with my friends is a self promotion in your mind?

Look, everyone does that here in Sajha. I could search some links and give you an example.

It's only I happened to do it better. Surely seems like it. (Being the Numero #1 that I am ).

I have no problem with anyone in Sajha.

I am a Lover.

I have only but love for my Sajhaites.

It's your 99% Sajhaites that are against me.

Yes, I did post some private messages but with permissions.

Is it wrong ?

I agree I posted some of your remarks on me which was personal ?

I apologize.

Forgive me as a brother.

I know you have heart.

I know you are filled with forgiveness.

But now

I think I am crossing the edge.

I think I am being too Rebellious.

I think You are ready at any moment

To pull that Trigger.

Like you pulled it to my brothers

Yotabhayanani Som


Dhiraj Ojha

Leave it.

Leave everything I have said above.


I will tell you one thing honestly.

I am an Extremist.

I am an Absolutist.

Everything I do, I say, I give my 101%.

I push envelopes.

Everyone knows that.

That's evident in my discussion posts.

That's evident in my stories.

Please do me a favor.

As a brother to another brother.

Answer me this.

Right here.

Right now.

Is Nas too much for Sajha and your 99% to handle?

Is Nas a Liability to your website?

Do you want Nas to Quit for Good !

The choice is yours.

With all brotherly love I have,
गोब्रे नाज भाइ

हि हि हि

Posted on 10-06-11 12:27 PM     [Snapshot: 236]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Since I know you prefer to make a public melodrama out of everything, I decided I will cater to your personal wishes by responding here.

I have made it clear what my aspiration for sajha is.

Generally I ban users who show outright disregard to sajha policy - no questions asked.
With you, I have been very liberal because I find you to be a talented person and deserving consideration.
But that doesn't mean you continue to disregard the overall good of sajha for your personal entertainment.

I want sajha to be a place where everyone is comfortable to post their queries and hope for a respectable answer. Not a side show of someone's personal self fulfilling drama.

I never want anyone to quit because I want everyone to find their own place and enjoy sajha for what it's worth. I don't like asking people to leave or banning people because I feel something should be worked out, and you know that I tried. But if someone becomes adamant that it's their way or the highway then highway it will have to be.


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