My personal opinion is love cant be defined as good or bad at all cz love is just love! anyways if u r askin about practical aspects and outcomes  then I would say u rather make sure he(indian guy) loves u to death and u also love him. Yes life will b bit hard cz u may have bunch of best friends and relatives cracking jokes on dhotis and they also cracking jokes on gorkha (gatekkeper as they say) ,however, u and ur mate should b really thoughtful all the times and handles situation wisely.

I thought falling in love is something that just happens involuntarily – not something that one pleads for beforehand. And if you, yourself, have to question the dignity of your partner, IT IS probably bad to fall for that person.

Dhoti le ahile maya gare jasto garchha, pachhi aafno rang dekhauchha, NEVER EVER MARRY A DHOTI. Tyo dhoti le taal paryo bhane mumbai lagera bechidinchha, GIRLS STAY AWAY FROM THEM.

Three things are big for Indians - wine, wealth and women. It is true for most men, but Indians die for it. I found it so true when I was in India.

And don't tell me that love is always right. If it is so, there would be no such thing called 'divorce'.

i hope he is not  a Gujju.

Do whatever you want to do and do whatever you think you are doing right. Don't ask opinion. You are mature girl. Take your own decision.

Hope you have a successful life. ....

I wonder why this thread re-opened, and people are discussing/ giving suggestions to the originator who started the thread wayyyyyyy back in 2006.........