Namaskar and Good Morning. Happy New Year to all the community members. magorkhe1, you have raised a genuine concern about cyber trolls and Internet Bullying. I too was wondering about the topic of post moderation in Sajha. While I have no solution than what is already hugely discussed in the media, I did wanted to get a critical review of community moderation techniques that could be used.Going off the topic: The US First Ladies, historically, have been supporting a (any) social cause for public good. The incoming First Lady even said that she wanted to work on the issue of Cyberbullying. Just to highlight that this is a topical issue that we should discuss. In this specific case, wishing upon somebody's mother to be dead is a spiteful comment. But in the world of Internet Troll we may have read other comments that are even worst. Therefore I could never have guts to post my funny videos in Youtube. Just reading comments directly attributed to my looks and commenters wishing death upon my family members would make me take 20 vicodins. To dissect this particular case you are talking about: I too had undergone the pain of my wife leaving me for a young another stud. So when anyone anywhere, no matter if it is in Sajha or in some other blogs or in Reddit, talk about denigrating a guy whose female spouse had left because their phallic strength and time commitment did not satisfy their wife's sexual desire, I feel like they are talking about me. Although, in your case you did not imply that. You were nicely attributing 'Poila Jane Budhi situation' with the opinion that married couples have to be mindful about time commitment to their spouse. But whenever I read posts that are even slightly similar to my own personal situation, I get enraged and have a desire to comment obnoxiously till that Original Poster bleeds phlegm of disgust. That is how I feel. But the internet has no recourse for me because my personal situation although not entirely unique is particularly rare. Then there is this perception of Nepali Diaspora. I have a perception that I am a member of Nepali community (a small group of friends whom we frequent with) and that I have a social standing in that community. So you are right about this gray line that we have to be mindful about when we are commenting about others. While in your case, a broad brush statement about a personal situation is not entirely antagonistic, you would expect some backlash from folks like me whom your comments may have innocently offended. There is no one size fits all solution to this problem. TL;DR: How do we make sure that Internet Trolls do not post unpermitted private information like actual name, physical address, Facebook profiles, email and other information that discloses Personally Identifiable Information, here in Sajha?

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गोर्खेलाई धेरैले (एक ज्यान सय युजरनेम्स) पेलेका हुन् त्यसमा दुईमत छैन। हुन त गोर्खेको बानी पनि त्यस्तै छ, जहाँ पनि जान्ने भइ हेडसर भइहाल्नु पर्ने, नबुझिने नेपाली र गोर्खे अँग्रेजीमा अर्ती उपदेश दिइहाल्नु पर्ने। तर ह्याभिङ्ग सेड द्याट अहिले अति नै भाको हो। रह्यो कुरा यो साइटको मालिक र उनको मोडरेसन प्रणाली बारे, यो त कि उनी जानुन् कि पशुपतिनाथ नै। मामपाखा कसैलाई आमाको नाम लिइ समेत गाली गर्दा, या उस्तै प्रयोगकर्तानाम उपयोग गरेर ट्रोल गर्दा समेत तुरी मुसार्दै दँग परेर बस्ने माइबापलाई हाम्ले के नै भन्न सक्छम् र।

DVGorke: यो ( साझा) समय बिताऊंन गइने हाट मेला जस्तो हो | कोही बिक्रेता कोही क्रेता कोही गफ चुट्न कोही मपाई पना देखाउन कोही कसैले चुरोट र चिया पिलाई हाल्छन की भनी कोही बारामासेले खेलेको तास हेर्न मात्र | यो हाट माँ सबैको आफ्नो आफ्नै बिशेषता छ | जति diversity हुन्छ तेतिनै सफलता तीर उन्मुख हुन्छ जस्तो लाग्छ | पटुकामाँ सिरुपाते भिरेर हाट छिर्नु अघि ३ मानु तीनपाने धो केर म यो हाटको कमाण्डर हु भनी छिर्ने हरु समस्याका जड़ हूँन | आफु श्रीमतीको साथिलाई पड़काए भननलाई कुनै झिझक भएन | समस्या पारेर समाधान मागेको पनि होईन नत कुनै humor नै हो | मैले कथा कही उल्टो चै भएको हो की भनी सोद्धा कुनै ज्यानमारा अपराध भएको त होइन |(You should expect unexpected. It applies me too but it is too much). अनी कती जनाले खोलेर हेरे भनी संख्या गन्ने र बेला बेलामा आफळे तोपमा पुर्याइ बसने गु हरले साझा भरिएको छ | कुन चै गु भनेर के जान्नु | संख्या बढाई दिन हानि दिएको कमेंट : गु लाइ चलाईएछ | अबलाई बिचार गर्नु पर्ला कुन चै गुह हो भनेर !

I have complained about his user. Hope Sajha Admin will do something. जात भात को कुरा गरेको होइन तर मुख छाड्ने कुरामा " कस्तो कामि दमाइ जस्तो मुख" भन्थे कही तेस्तै त होईन ?तेसो नभए छिमेकी भएर दैनिक सुनेको हुनु पर्छ कि त घरमा बोलिने दैनिकी भाषाहोला | मकी हियर मन्की रिपिट | Ma Nepali. Posted on 01-05-17 10:22 AM [Snapshot: 1022] Reply | Notify Admin | Delete [Subscribe] Rate this Post: 0 Like ? [10 more flags than likes deactivates post.] Flag Fix Unicode thats y i say every time tero aama lai hario baas ma 3 tham la badera toooooooparera bagmati ma lagera polne...assylum..nothing personal but this is in connection to ur shitty posts...god bless u son Last edited: 06-Jan-17 02:56 PM