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@Hem Narayan Chhantyal: PM me if you want to have a chat. I studied in the states for 8 years and went back to Nepal to work. Happy to help.

@All, Happiness is a state of mind. Moving to a new city or moving to a different country won't make you happy. You will come back to your original state after few months. You have to make peace with your inner demons first. That does not mean that I am discouraging you to move back to Nepal. Definitely move back. But, think why did you come here in the US in the first place? Were you more happier back then ? Is there in your life that you are lacking or lagging? May be your life has become too sedentary and monotonous. Get out of your comfort zone.US is a vast beautiful place. Go get some adventure. Just dont spend your life sitting on that shitty couch. Good luck bro. Last edited: 28-May-18 05:34 PM

barsa ko 100k us dollar save huncha vane job ramrai hola. behe bhai sakyo. aaba euta bachha ko kami chha life ma. tyo baby le tapai ko sochne tarika nai badalcha. usko future sajhilo huncha. by the time bachha 16 yr ko huncha tapai ko retire hune belahuncha. nepal ma euta ghar ra jagga vai halcha. ani buda budi kumlo kasera jane nepal. kids yahi hurkinchan. pashupati jane sadhai ani bhajan gaune basne. nepal pugda tapai haro 50s ko hunu huncha hola, dharma karma garne basne. kids bhetna barsa ma 1 palta aaune. afnu khusi matra na sochau bholi santan le gali na garun. aru 20 barsa basda sabai ko jiban sajhilo huncha. just my opinion. its ur call.

If you are saving 100K per year in your saving account, you should consider not leaving USA.

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71 barse afulai lakka jawan samjhane trumple america chalaundai chha, 30 barse nepali chain halka budho ???

What do u Do? I don't even save 10 k a year bit I am still dragging here. Desperate Nepalis need money ,so help them From here and make bigger impact. You can be in Nepal but you won't me making any difference. Most Kathmandu residents are splint brats who spend their money in extramarital affairs and jaad. They talk to you as id they are doing a favor by living in Nepal. Do t be one of those ppl. Do business I the US if you want to spend a lot of time in Nepal.

One of the very few (actually extremely rare) posts in Sajha that has no right answers and no wrong answers as a solution. It is because the topic of discussion can go both ways, well, at least that how I feel-- to return or not to return back to Nepal. I have finished reading all of the comments posted above and agree with all of them. They have all shared their opinion and I'll say this again, I don't think anybody's wrong. Like what Gwach bro said, Amrikaa ko basaai is not only for you, it's for your kids too. What if you return back and 20 yrs from now your kids say "mero baa le Amrikaa nachhadya bhaye, haami pani raamro thaau ma pugtheu hola......" I'm not trying to say Nepal ma chai kids hurkauna sakinna, but living standards, education standards, freedom, career, etc. chai yeta kai badhi probability dekhincha hai. Just like what cool_like_a_bird said, happiness lies within yourself. If you feel you will find more peace and happiness going back home, I think you should. But, would moving to a different city, state, or country really change how you enjoy your life? You need to ask yourself. Even I have seen people go back home and succeed. I have also seen people stick around here and succeed too. Harek ko case aafno aafno huncha. I know this may not be the answer you're looking for but like I said, this topic of discussion can go both ways. By the way, a $100k per year savings is no joke. I don't know what you and your spouse do for a living (I can care less) but trust me, you guys are doing wayyyyyy better than most of us. Ma pani suitcase maa gundruk nai liyera aako ho, more than a decade ago. Undergrad sakkiyo raamro university bata. Graduate sakkiyo CPT wala school bata. IT maa chhirera raamrai career banaako pani over 6 years bhayo. Nepal maa ghar jagga ni kinekai chhu. Baa aama herekai chhu. Tara khai, ahile samma kehi chaajo paajo chaina. DV ni parena. H1 ni parya haina. Na saranaarthi paryo. Na love garya US citizen Nepali keti sanga bihe nai bhayo. Na ta ahile samma EB2 ko result nai aayo. Tyei pani haresh khaako chaina. Kehi hunchha bhanera. Good luck brother!!

@Statuspidit le hasayo..love gareko nepali citizen keti ni fuskayau..arkai boka le citizen pauni lobe ma udai diyo ki k ho..afno pani aba 1 tai bato cha..USC nepali keti bihe garnu..yahan nepali kt matarai bhaye ta bhau khojera hattu cha..jhan USC bhaye chi moti bhyatli le pani manche gandinan nepali keta lai hahhaaa... Any for OP, nice you save 100K a year (combile house hold income must be over 250K), if you have enough money and plan , go back home, but give birth to your child here before you go so your child has option to come back when he/she grows up.

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@ HEM NARAYAN CHHANTYAL: भुत्रो को हरेक वर्ष १ लाख अमेरिकी डल्लर कमिन्छ यार ! हामि पनि यहाँ बसेको १० वर्ष भन्दा बडी नै भयो !राम्रो नै काम गर्छौ ! हावा गफ दिन पनि कति देको ! तोइत ! कि त गैरकानुनी काम गर्नु पर्यो ! त्यत्रो पैसा कसरि जम्मा हुन्छ ! हावा !

My suggestion don't have any kids. Look at the population of the world , its about to explode. World does not need any more people. If you have lot of money donate it. Help old and disable people. http://www.worldometers.info/w...

Hem sir, decision gari saknu bhayechha. Hajur laai ani hajur ko family laai dherai dherai subhakamana. Aafno gaau farkiyera ajjha dherai dherai pragati gardai jaanush. Mero hridaya dekhi ko subhakamana chha hai. Good luck brother!!

ramro taal le basera 100k dollar per year save ? kaha job garnu hunchha ? IT ma ? IT ma gare pani let's say 5,6 yrs experience lai max 150k hola. Tyasma mortgage/rent, health/auto insurance, car loan , cable, utilities, phone , grocery , entertainment, liquor, auto gas , lunch/dinner out sabai garera 100k save garna ta uhi bus chadera bihana , beluka bhat ra chicken, prepaid phone ra free aru ko wifi chalayera , room share garera bhayo bhane matra ho.

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घर फर्कन बिज्ञापन गरि राख्नु पर्दैन , जानुस विदेश बसाई को अनुभवले नेपालले केहि असल कुरा पाउने छ ! लाहुरे जीवन बाट मुक्ति मिल्ने भयो !

पुरानो धागो भएपनि घर फर्कन चाहनेलाई नेपालमा निकै राम्रो अवस्था छ; फर्कनुहोस। फर्कन चाहेर पनि फर्किहाल्न नसकेको म पनि हुँ। माथि वार्षिक एक लाख बच्ने सम्बन्धमा शंका केहिले देखाउनु भयो. Disclaimer: I am a non-IT person in research/academic area and do not make much. सुनेका कुराहरू भन्दैछु: An IT guy I know said he makes $68/hr, another mid-career engineer makes $75 (with benefits) and several other IT people around me make about the same or probably even more. एक दुइ जानाले $100/hr हाराहारी कमाएको पनि भन्छन। Most of them have their spouses in the same field (=2X income) Some of them regularly talk about millions in investment portfolios during social gatherings. Most of them have bought homes for around $300K (= not so much for mortgage). If both spouses truly have एक लाख को job, saving 1 लाख is not difficult. If they really earn $100+/hr as they tout, पैसा कता राख्ने समस्या होला बरु.

THere is something called extra income it's not that hard Tori!!!

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