Just trying to get some general feedback from the sajha.com users regarding their views on marriage.

Dudes,



Marry the person who makes you happy and who u respect, someone who you
don't want to take your eyes off, who u cant wait to see after a long
hard days work, someone you want to commit to for life and are ready to
go through and work through all the highs (and lows) of marriage and
what life throws at you. Commitment with no agendas and forget about
origin, location or race. Since when did that correlate with anything
good? If you marry for those hidden agendas, you will screw yours and
the girls lifes up. Yours may be counted as one of many unhappy
marriages and possible divorces occuring in todays society. Infidelity
may occur. Is it worth it?



Marriage might seem like a piece of paper expected by society as written
by the few who've written on this thread but along with it, marriage
brings an expectance of obligation from both parties to commit whole
heartedly. Obviously there are variations to peoples sort of commitment
nowadays, but still, piece of mind mate. Ahh that's all I can say for
now, i'm tired....lol.







- Femmy

How long have you been married for femmy?

It varies person to person and depending their situation and personal choices, even willing to marry a Nepali you may have max-out. Lets say, you have been to usa for a long time and out of status. Someone has to do you a favor to get married with Nepali girl. Why should she / he marry with you?
I guess girl has more choices than men do because of the ratio. Most girls have in some kind of relationship before they come to USA, so you must be in similar situation.

Bidroh,

Thanks for the question but i'm not married...waiting for that person whom I described..lol.  Where the hell is he? He's bloody late!

Any reason you asked that question? What I wrote did not agree with u? What's your take on the issue? Do share. :)


- Femmy

I've already expressed my opinion above. Your wait is over now.