I was wrong to post someone's picture on sajha, but don't you guys think Nepali parents should think twice before sending their daughters to the US? In the lack of supervision, I think Nepali girls are heading in the wrong direction. Consuming alcohol and living with boyfriend have become very common among our Nepali girls.
Will you send your daughter alone in this FREE country?

I read his previous thread. it was totally a threat. He can harm physically to any Nepalese  girls. I can smell Jealousy.  If he posted somewhere like that online, beside Sajha, he might be getting medical attention. This is serious. Now I am so scare, Sajha users are Psycho, too.

Yo Kbhanchayobhai,


You have to go with the times man.....personally, yes it doesn't soundnice when u hear of Nepali girls sleeping around and other misdemeanours. Nobody really wants to hear their sister, cousin, friend to take part in all that, but this is normal now in this day and age all over the world, especially in Nepal! They are more so advanced now! Digest this fact no matter how much u hate it. Nepal peeps are mostly in the 21st century and is common for girls to have live-in boyfriends ( i personally have no qualms about that) sleep around with many guys ( I have qualms about that, i have my conservative side, there is a limit) wear incredibly revealing clothes ( that's their business but have to be aware of the kind of signals it sends out and possibly the (wrong) kind of guys it attracts) and get blind drunk ( have fun but staying safe is key!)  They're relishing their freedom, they found a chance to be themselves and do what they feel, free from suppression/oppression, what can u do...nothing...because it's happened, nothing stays the same...nothing u do or say will change it! Accept it!

U probably find it hard to accept is because previously Nepals women always were/are expected to keep low profile, behave, dress morally, be obedient and uphold reputation, refrain from reputation killing activities. Most girls would agree, guys always got more freedom to do what they hell they like, yes bitter taste, lol. 

Of course, from parents perspectives, they probably don't want to give complete freedom to frolick around and misbehave but they can't lock up their daughters forever, daughters need education too and opportunities. Now girls are abroad, independent and intergrating into that society that permits such behaviours. C'est la vie!

Overall, it's the girls problem how she wants to act, if she wants to carry herself morally or immorally. Ultimately, she will perhaps see some consequences as a result of her actions, she will answer to them herself so don't get your knickers in a twist over it.

My honest 2 pennies, like it or hate it guys.
 

OK!
 Nepali girls, Jindabad.
Whatever you do is your private life. When you are depressed, need help etc, don't forget to call, "1800-Nepali-boy" or 1-800-Nepali-dai", we're always there for you because your problem is not your private problem any more, we consider it our problem too.. OKI/DOKI.. Thank you for enlightening.

Magdadela!

Great comment!

What does your nick mean, please enlighten me.

I dont wana compalin about any one Personal life ..Everyone has their own life..and own privacy...yes we have to go with time bt we dont forgot our culture and where we came..be indipendent and explore new things , be innovative is good  ...Do whatever You want to Do bt dont Regret from you Past,,..Cheers..Enjoy the moment You Have...

के कुरा गर्या हुन यी चिया भाई ले? न छेउ बुझ्नु न टुप्पो बुझ्नु!

Bigbang10 timile k vanna khojeko ni ..

Chiya bhai, timi aru ko personal life ma matlab gardina pani bhanchhua, ani sallaha pani dinchhau dont forget our culture etc.etc. .... ani dont regret from your past pani bhanchhau ... kuro kata kata fit nabhaye jasto lagyo malai ... tehi kuro maile bujina bhany kya...... Ani kuro ko churo bujna maile khojda ta timile Nepali culture bata aako keti haru haat ma beer ko bottle samayera future ma regret nagara bhanna khojya po hi ki jasto lagyo. Maile thikai buje ki thikai buje ?

bigbang10 timro thread ma qns pani cha ra Ans pani ...tehi ho bro ...u r right....khali Generalise garna khojeko ....

I feel surprised at how easily nepali parents let their daughters come to US. Even though they have no one over here, they easily let them fly off. Do they not think about how the girls will survive, who will take care of them? 17-18 yrs old girls flying to US alone without the supervision of anyone, knowing that their parents cannot support them continuously (may be no more than the incoming semester).

Are nepali parents so helpless that they want their children away from home??? Do they not have any sense?

Nepali parents don't know about US life. Those who know they don't let them come here. Those who let them come here think its an easy life, but they might not be right. Its might be easy for some but not for everybody. And, those who live here they don't show the reality. They always say they are having fun, life is really easy going in US, all the easy jobs , cars, shoppings, nice pictures (which they send back home) etc etc and so on. So, nepali parents think is good life in US. But life in US depends. Nowadays its kind of fashion for nepali kids to come here in US for higher education and free life.

Dear kbhanchayobhai

You moron, go to hell.

What's ur freakin problem. Mind ur own business.

Live and let live.

You Uncle
Mukurdhom

What Wrong in those pic if someone enjoying there life dan ..Dont you think in Nepal they do those thing....so it deoesnt matter where are they...the thing is what they are doing...If they want they can do anywhere....

And its not coz of usa...life over here is not what we saw in pic ..we have to do lots of thing ourselves .work..study....status..and obviosuly Fun of life..

Grow up bhai. 25 years from now on, you don't wanna know what your 19 year old daughter will be doing. Let them do their thing. Its their life. Why does it bother you that much? Sure, if you come across a s****, don't fall for her and watch who she's been with but I'd strongly urge you to keep your virginity intact for the right girl buddy.  You'll definitely come across some decent guy or a girl who will take care of you. This isn't a proper way of pouring your frustrations though. Its evident that some hot Nepali ladies rejected you but surely, you've got better things to do. 

haha this taliban just deleted my posting, i guess u really do want to put nepal under SHARIA rule ....are u trying to implement censorship as well?

My thread, my rule! ;)

Top five reasons, why parents should send their daughters to the US:

If they stay in Nepal instead,
1) .. they might make porn movies, much to the embarrassment of their mom, dad, didi-bahini, and daju-bhai.

2) .. they might have to resort to turning tricks to maintain a high-end life style for lack of credit cards that are aplenty in the US.

3) .. their potential for intellectual and professional growth might get stunted to what the motherland can provide if they are really smart and industrious.

4) .. the pants of some Nepali ( and some Pakistani and black boys too in some cases ) in the US will be left untamed like the blazing California wild-fires.

5) .. parents will still be providing pocket money to the thirty-plus-year-old daughters if they are still unemployed and unmarried.

Magdadela=???
I do not know what it means. I opened this account 3-5 years ago and I think there was a couple of errors while typing. I was teaching my young son something and he was unbearably acting weird. I was annoyed at him. I now remember I typed in ma (maila for second son as I am a second son) and the rest was filled in by my son (he was 3 then). I did not know what to do, spank my son, tell him, "Great job, son" etc. Finally I felt the userid sounded freaking good.

I wonder what could it mean, too?

Magda dela= you ask, he may give!
lol

LOL!
But to say the least, the parents should know beforehand any way where their daughters are going. My sinful eyes have seen a lot in this kaliyug! I sometimes think why I am here in the US. Futher more, why I am not leaving this country. I wish I had gone back a long time ago when I was loaded with greenbacks to my neck.