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 mero gf lai mero dv winner sathi ko dependent banayera kasari lyaune?? need ideas!!

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Posted on 01-13-14 9:18 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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हेल्लो दाइ अनि साथि हरु! मेरो ३ वर्ष को जी.एफ. लाइ यहाँ ल्याउने मौका मैले finally पाको छु. मेरो एकदम मिल्ने साथी लाई DV परेको छ! उ चाही अब एक महिना पछि आउने कुरा छ. यहाँ आए पछि मै संग बस्ने व्यवस्था मैले गरेको छु. DV भर्दा खेरि उसले single भएर भरेको थियो. अब उसले court marriage गरेर dependent ल्याउन मिल्छ कि मिल्दैन?? उसलाई चाही embassy ले ३ महिना अगाडी सम्म को समय देको थियो रे कोइ केटि छ भने visa दिन मिल्छ भनेर. please आफ्नो अनुभव अनि आइडिया हरु शेयर गर्नु होला र सुझाब पनि दिनु होला. मलाई यस बारे खासै धेरै थाहा छैन. रियल बिहे नै गरेको हो कि हैन भनेर कति को चेक गर्छ? यहाँ आएर मेरो बुढी ले ग्रीन कार्ड पाएर उसलाई दिवोर्ष दिन कति कुर्नु पर्छ? फेरी नेपाल मा दर्ता गरेको बिहे पनि खारेज गर्नु पर्ने होला, हैन? कृपया यो कुरा मा मलाई हेल्प गर्नु होला. धन्यवाद!
 
Posted on 01-13-14 5:13 PM     [Snapshot: 999]     Reply [Subscribe]
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According to Patanjali Yoga Sutra No. I.6, all apparent movements of mind can be categorized in five main categories:
1) Proven Theory
2) Wrong Knowledge
3) Imagination
4) Sleep
5) Memory

Ryan 25's mental modification comes under "wrong knowledge" and "Imagination." Wrong knowledge includes assumptions, presumptions, deductions, unsound thinking etc. Imagination includes all fancies, hallucinations and anything that forms a mental image that has no solid scientific ground.

What makes humans different from animals? It is Dharma (Right Conduct). Without right conduct humans are animals.

An Utopian society is impossible where there is mind because mind itself is the result of ignorance. However, we can mitigate evil tendencies from our societies by bringing higher qualities present in the human mind. I do not blame Ryan 25 for bringing such evil thoughts because society as a whole is responsible for nurturing such ignoble thoughts. When education becomes ill, where results and numbers are valued more than the means to achieve such results, we will create more Ryan 25.
 
Posted on 01-13-14 8:00 PM     [Snapshot: 1293]     Reply [Subscribe]
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हरि शरदम !!! नारायण नारायण !!

 
Posted on 01-14-14 12:01 AM     [Snapshot: 1534]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Idea is NOT bad. 

But in reality, this process can take years. Remember, we are human. We have emotions. Our behavior and emotions can change with Time and, with our Surroundings. Above all, woman is involved in this case. 

1.After their arrival in US, You all three have to live under one roof. Three is a crowd. 

2. Legally, your wife will be calling your friend, "shreeman" in front of you, God knows how long would that be. What would happen is she feels comfortable calling your friend "shreeman"?

3. Somehow she gets preg ( don't worry, it yours) but what would you do on Child's Birth Certificate, Father's name. You can't put yours. She is legally married to your friend. 

And there are many more social factors directly involve with emotions. Lawyers are helpless in this kind of events.  

 


 
Posted on 01-14-14 11:14 AM     [Snapshot: 1852]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Wow !! WTF.. INS take notice. This is a prety good reflection of Nepali society. Knowing the fact that it is wrong yet still our Bhedas are still supporting this MORON.
 
Posted on 01-14-14 2:18 PM     [Snapshot: 2036]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Remember, marriage is not a joke. It will leave a deep imprint in your heart.
 
Posted on 01-14-14 9:01 PM     [Snapshot: 2374]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@sexyinsari sometimes people get separated and have someone else's babies without getting legal divorce. I don't think thats an issue.
 
Posted on 01-14-14 9:05 PM     [Snapshot: 2383]     Reply [Subscribe]
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And also i don't know if she has to call shreeman infront of anyone other than at antarwarta. I am not encouraging or discouraging any one but those two are not simply an issue.
And c'mon get swayambar bibah rey, its easier to go to someone else's bihe get dressed up and take some snap.
 
Posted on 01-14-14 11:06 PM     [Snapshot: 2477]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@ goddamn,

the question was answered based on the case scenario. NOT in a general sense.

DV winner man is sponsoring a woman base on marriage. Process will take 3-4 years.

As you said if they get separated, do you think green card process will continue?

Or at the time of interview, if a woman has a child from a another man, but she is still married

to her husband, do you think immigration officer will close his eyes and approves the case.


This is the case scenario.
OMG!!!! I don't even know why I am here. Bunch of kids!!!!


 
Posted on 01-14-14 11:45 PM     [Snapshot: 2504]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@sexy I think OP is here and the gf is in Nepal, so don't worry about baby. And about 3/4 yrs if you are not talking about general, for visa current date for spouse is not that long.
If the gf gets visa then she will have her own green card upon arrival, so only problem is how to null the previous marraige.
I am not encouragin OP or anything but the suggetions does not make any sense, so just playing the devil's advocate. And thanks for talking to this kid. Cheers :)
 



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