Hey! all ladies out there.. Let us hear some of the things youýve done (would do) that makes you think it's a girl thing!(not being corny). Some of mine cliques would be: -Hair do ( esp before night-outs) -Make-up ( it's in every girlýs gene) -Overlook guys trying to come closer **wink** -Pulling guy's leg (damn! they always pick on us) -Shopping mania (shopping like a pro) -Gossips ( Hush! Hush!) - Flashy car :P Ashley!

Sweetipie:"I would encourage women to copy white girls because they are the most forward women kind out there ......in terms of independence, brain, fashion forwardness, strong, skills etc:"

Sweetipie, which white girl you are talking about? There are lot of countryýs people are white but I believe you are talking about American white girl. I am just wondering how long you have been living in USA because it seems like you haven't understand American culture that much....

I do have couple of points not to believe that you have understood American culture that much.

Look at how people are talking about abortion and women rights in this country and look at other developed country in Europe and rest of the world, they already decide this issue long time ago. I can't even think that white girls still thinks that abortion is wrong ýwhat kind of white girl you are talking about? If you look at upcoming election, you can tell that there are plenty of women still think abortion is wrong. I bet that if you ask same question among Nepali women, they will go for abortion right for woman.

There are around 10 to 15% white girl prefer to stay home as full time house mom and depend on husbandýs income in this countryý is that independence? Where are you sweetiepie? I think Nepal is getting lot better on this issue. At lease educated woman like to work and want to be independent financially in Nepal nowadays. I am not saying itýs better than USA but Nepal is going on right directioný.

Look at election debate, you can tell that white people are still debating on Gay and lesbian issueý.. I think it shouldnýt be that big deal once itýs already proved biologically that people were born as gay and lesbianý. I canýt even think that people in this country still think that being gay and lesbian is wrong. What kind of educated and brained people they are?

Strong , what kind of strong you are talking about? Do you know that most of gf and bf move in together before getting married because girl usually think that they feel more secure. Are they mentally strong?

What is forwardness? What kind of forwardness you are talking about? Wearing mini to micro , is that forwardness? Or getting educated and being independent financially and mentally are forwardness? There are thousands of white girl in this country want to get married rich guy and donýt want to work for rest of her life. I canýt even think how pathetic thinking is that?

Ashley ,good to know that this thread is completely dedicated to ladies.

Any way, following are some of thing that i like to do:

I love to run,( you will catch me running in Boston around 6 pm along Charles river).
I love to read ( i read anything from Fortune to People ,hehe....)
I love to flirt, gosh ( sani dekhi laga bani, but i end it before it gets out of control hehe...)

hair and make up, I have to say i have been blessed and spend less time,
But yeah i do weight training to tone my body.

I don't know what else to write, i happen to be a non smoker and a non drinker , so there is no point go to bar or hanging out unnecessarily.

Well I guess my life sucks! Yeah ! cooking is my passion and i try new recipes all
the time.

I am sure you gals have more fun stuff to write.

there was a typo : i meant no point going to a bar.............

I don't understand one thing... What fashion has anything to do with Forwardness(that is mental forwadness..i'm talking about) ???!!@@confused##$$???

Well trying to stick to the topic.
Things that i love to do..... hmmm

In Nepal..
Eating titaura, more tituara and even more titaura
Holding my friends hand tightly while walking on the street ;o)
Talking hour and hours about guys that are hot, girls that are biaach, actaully on any topic that is sizzling !! ;)
Saving some pocket money and going shopping..
Sleepover at friends house and many more...(Can't think of it right now..)

In Amrika...
Well sadly don't get a chance to do much of girly stuff nowadays.. :o(
While living in dorm.. watch the same hindi movie thousand times (scarsity of hindi movies...) and still find some mistakes to pick on ....and make fun of it.
Go clubing (very rarely) esp. on thursday nights.... it used be lady's night ...;o)
Geting drunk in my room and paying fines for making too much noise during quiet hours... (When i think of my RA i still get mad at her... she even used to complain on weekends.. that biiatch .... :o {) (trying to make angry expression)
hmm whatelse -- oh yes plucking eyebrows (I really miss Nepal's beauty parlor threading)
Bitchiing abt your bf esp after having a fight.. oh yeah that feels good
And sharing feelings... nomatter how close you are with guys... they can never understand you as good as your girlfriends do....
Planning trips during long holidays like spring break or fall break (during entire trip we used to just talk, talk and laugh, talk and laugh, get drunk and talk more.... hehe dyam those were the days..huh me feeling nostalgic :o(
And ya while driving on those trips playing all your favorite songs in full volume and if we get lost in highway (which we used to)... always blame on eachother for not having sense of direction (hehe that used to be fun)
Well thats it for now... can't remember everything right now....

Ooopsidaisey it sounds more like what i used to do rather than what i love to do.... heheh sorry for getting distracted....

common everyone lets enjoy Fox Bread this dashain

La la Dashain aayo khaula piula...chuttai basaula! heheeeeee. yo Lady's zone ma Leda haru aayera lady haru sabai bhaga bhag jasto cha...comon guys, go ruin fortunes in your own zone :) and leave our Sweetypie alone!

Sweety, just relax. take a deep breath. go to spa on weekends with Sitara and LadyCroft. and learn from them how to live in parallel with men! :)

Men are the makers of history. Columbus discovered America. Galilieo treaded the moon. Have you seen any DC_Girl make a history? :) Women are a minority (in their contributions, believe me, if you compare, women were always a minority). Therefore, 'men' have all the reasons in trying to look superior to women wherever and whenever opportunity avails. well, they deserve it, dont you think? after all that 'men' making history?? let's not hurt their egos now, comon Sweety, be nice.

PS: Does anyone know the exact timing of tika?

Hehehehe .. Nice one DC Girl.. I can't stop laughing at your thread.. Tara ho ni hai DC Man are the makers of History..Look at Alexander, Ceasar, Nepoleon, Benito Mossolini, Hitler, Roosevelt and can't exclude Galileo, Newton, Einsitein and so on.. maile ta yo sochekai thiyina...

I love to flirt, gosh ( sani dekhi laga bani, but i end it before it gets out of control hehe...) ....

hahaha preeti, it must be really hard for you, ....whenever guys ask you your name, you have to say you are Preety(preeti)...haha good name you have their sweety :)

Gosh, where to start?
I had been wanting to say this for a while now, but thought i would leave this nitwit called sweetiepie to her own devices; thought it's not worth the hassles, it's a lady's zone anyway, why intrude etc.

But what really broke the camel's back so to speak was when she goes on to say that she encoruages women to copy white girls. It pretty much says it all. She is dumber than what I had previously thought.

And sweetiepie, please spare me your gibberish. I would rather talk to a wall than engage in a verbal spat with you because you are incredibly boring and dumb.

Confused dear, i have to say my name annoys me sometimes. I hate to say pretty, pretty, ...........it is crazy.

Co-workers calling me pretty, preeti where are you ? God that really annoys me.

BTW what are you doing in ladies zone? To check out gals , hehe ? Nevermind, it is ok to visit this thread, as long as you are nice.

Guys are welcome too , here i go again, I should flirting before it .............

I meant i should stop flirting

Although, I sympathize with many of the issues that Sweetiepie brings to this forum, I beg to differ on the image she portrays of the "Nepali" woman. Note: the "you" used is generic!

-On being "Sati Savitri" -- you'd better be a sati savitri in your marriage/relationship unless you want to take in a boy friend or two too.

-On wearing a Sari-- If you know how to wear it and wear it long enough, you'll be comfortable. If you know when to where it, it will be suitable (obviously, one can't go jogging wearing one!), If you know how to carry it off, you will look, beautiful, sexy, graceful and elegant... all at the same time. What more could you ask for?

-On wearing a kurtha-- It can be as sexy as you want it or as conservative as you want it to be.

--On pants-- It may be comfortable but not necessarily flatter your figure.

--On minis-- You may look "modern" but not necessarily well-dressed or elegant.

--On "copying white girls", you can be Nepali with black hair, with Nepali accent, with less than fluent English and still exude confidence which is attractive to both Nepalis and Foreigners; to both males and females!!!!

BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF AND SECURE IN YOUR ROOTS!

Gosh ! Sitara , you are so much like me. Very well said , indeed. I have the same views.

We can be different in our own ways and be beautiful, we don't need to be like X,Y and Z.

I admire people who dare to be different and are not ashamed of their roots and culture.

i think we should wear clothes that are comfortable. In a nutshell, it all boils down to confidence.
Look at Aishwarya Rai, she looks good on anything , (not because she is just pretty), but because she projects confidence .

100% agreed with Sitara Didi's point ... Esp last one
On "copying white girls", you can be Nepali with black hair, with Nepali accent, with less than fluent English and still exude confidence which is attractive to both Nepalis and Foreigners; to both males and females!!!!
So true!! There are lots of strong women back home , who wears sari everyday to work but they are equally forward, succesful and confident like any other women of this world.(Like my maamii :o) )

To Sitara,

--On being "Sati Savitri" -- you'd better be a sati savitri in your marriage/relationship unless you want to take in a boy friend or two too.....

Why sitara, not everyone wants to be in onee Deep Realtionships, like you and me :P :P..?..ppl love to have fun tooo..

---On wearing a Sari-- If you know how to wear it and wear it long enough, you'll be comfortable. If you know when to where it, it will be suitable (obviously, one can't go jogging wearing one!), If you know how to carry it off, you will look, beautiful, sexy, graceful and elegant... all at the same time. What more could you ask for?

Sitara read her posting carefully, she said, "IN MY VIEW, its not comfortable.." so, leave her alone, let her do what she WANTS! :)

--- --On pants-- It may be comfortable but not necessarily flatter your figure

Why not?? if someone has a NICEEE piece of Body..wudnt those tight jeans/pants flatter ur figure...

-- --On minis-- You may look "modern" but not necessarily well-dressed or elegant.

Not well dressed or elegant?? coomon sitara, you missed the main point out there..ThEY WILL cerTAinly LOOK sexY in it!

--On "copying white girls", you can be Nepali with black hair, with Nepali accent, with less than fluent English and still exude confidence which is attractive to both Nepalis and Foreigners; to both males and females!!!!

Again, read her post carefully, she said "in terms of independence, brain, fashion forwardness, strong, skills etc", you think thats false?? prove it..ofcourse s_P meant Western Women not just White Women, right s_P? :)

sorry gals, Sitara was here, cudnt resisit....:P :P ..

*SIGH!!!!* Confused honey, how long must I suffer you?! Obviously, (you don't realize) unlike you, Sweetiepie does understand the meaning of the generic "you"!!!

Wow Sitara, I am your fan.. Very good point; naive but still strong. Confuse bro you misunderstood her. Confuse bro kura bujera ni nabujeko justo nagara na yaar.. Don't show your double standard, Man. You were against "COPYING FROM KHAIRE" somewhere in SAJHA. Ahile chai feri arkai kura.?. She is trying to justify that- by wearing micro, mini doesn't make one forward and wearing salwar kurta make her ignorant..Wasn't that, what Sweetie mean? Sweetie maiya, may be you copied from khairo chala to be modern and forward, but there are still lots of lady out there who are still idealistic Nepali where your regular khairo can't even close to. So do not waste your time on imposing your concept to every single Nepali didi bahini. Nepali lai tyasto saro underestimate garnu bhayena maiya..

For say, you copied from Khaireni (thats what everybody thinks) to look so called "forward and intelligent". Now Ms Sitara is proud to be Nepali woman (that is my personal perspective, if I am not wrong). You tell me, in what ways you are forward than Sitara ? My intension is not to creat havoc between you guys..

About "SATI SAVITRI" , one doesn't have to necessarily go SATI along with her husband. I think that implies "IDEALISTIC WIFE" like Sita.. By the way Sweetie, its not bad to be Sita when you have husband like RAM.

who wrote the other thread about guys coming to this zone?think its in the 2nd page..and me being a leda..cant be arsed to go find it..and so posting here la(plus i get to see the ladie s too...wah wah...ek post dui nisana..;oP)

anywys well ke ke ke bhanca thio manis le...abo ledas haru if they never leech themselves with the ladies...well the world is meant to be like that hoina?cos well i know keti haru pani dherai im independent dun need anyone etc...bhaney ko bhanko bhanchan...but well i really do like to believe that..but from what i seen..urghh...how strong the ladies..are..in the end..they want that special leda for them..the long for that special leda(unless ur a lesbo then u want a spcial ady ;oP) to be there for them..when they really need them...altho even when the special leda is around..the ladies chai wanna be alone...tells the leda she wanna be alone..i do really like to believe ladies are strong enuf and never carry that desire that they need someone to be there to support them...when they feel weak..be their pillar to hold and stand...well..from what i have seen so far..dyam i hate it when me frens cant get over guys...

hate to see them being weak..and they aint weak ppl...just they get weak cos of a guy..so yo bhak bhak dherai bhoyo...i mean hehe it always will go on i guess..ladies sayin they are strong and wanna be independent..and guys leeeching...even tho they are not needed..more like irritation....dyam i dunno whats right..should the ledas just stop being themself?and stop leeching them to ladies..or well should ladies alik cool it down..and do let the ledas know..time to time they do appreciate the ledas for leeching..and let them know they are appreciated..but they do need their space too..:o)...

lata i had enuf of leeching..confused bro!!IM CONFUSED!!!cos this world is a freakn confusing world!!salla...i know what kinda world it is..what it can become..how good it can it become..but kayho?ppl contradict themselves too much....everyone freakn does!!..arghhhhh!!esp me hehehehe....anyways will i be blasted for shoutin in this ladies zone?i duno..most prob...but well hope some of me points went across...nothing is perfect..but cant we all live in peace and harmony for once?maybe ladies and ledas are born to be like this...fight and make up..fight and make up...etc...but urghh dyam im tired of seeing the fight and the hurt it brings...confused bro..if only everyone admitted how confused they really are...maybe then we will blame each other less for the tensions..well..i dunno i know im freakn confused...always was and will be...but that doest mean i got right to say smthings like here to discriminate anyone..and i aint discriminating anyone..err am i?i dunno im so freakn confused..i think i sound like i am hehe..

anyways gotta go....dyam seeing the ladies did make me happy tho...without them life will never be complete :o)...


laters...

danny

how long must I suffer you?!

OOOH! just one word, "FOREVERRR"


hahaha..maan, i hadnt had time to browse sajha this week, , so friday night, i sit down, rati ko 12 bajee, open sajha.com..then enter Sajha's guild to check out whats going on...hahaha then i see a posting by a guy named Deepak Khadka, then the title was called, Tasbir Sitara ko, i thought it had some metaphorical meaning or whatever..haahah then finally when i open the page JHAAKAAAASS!!!!hahahahahahhahahhahah....there she is..a long long poem dedicated to her...LOLL..hahah sitara, now i have a competition here, dammn i cant write poems tho, will i still be able to impress you??

btw, pisces bro i never said, we sud "copy americans", i meant we are far behind westerners?? u dont think thats true,, just PROVE IT! :)

Well guys... .Those who just hate to even wear the neapli palpali dhaka topi in their daily life... has no rights in anyway.. to say that womens should wear sarees just because they are from Nepal. Do they have that right ???