Was curious about how/what ppl think about interracial dating/relationships? Do you limit yourself somewhat to your culture or it doesnt matter. Cause I knw of ppl only dating someone of their own, if not totally rejecting their own. For me, obv better if Im with someone from my own country, since we share the same culture and beliefs but I dont limit myself... if it happens it happens. Be it white, black, red or yellow. Does anyone hear me on this???

Shall we talk bout inter-caste relationship before we head to interracial.....

hamro janani janma bhumi mah

baun le magarni...... chetri le baun... newar le gurung.... gurung le chetri.. etc etc.................. bihe gare ta bau aama ko kamparo tatera aauncha..
aba bro/sis chahi interracial re..........

pahila ghar bhitra ko kuro ko samadhan gara.. ani pachi.. chimeki ko pblm solve garna jau..........


YB

Hey YB,
I dint mean to offend anyone by talking about Interracial instead of intercaste relationships. I was jus curious, since a lot us are here in the US and mix with the diverse crowd, it is possible we dont think about the caste/race and get into this relationship thingy u knw. I wasnt trying to solve any problem here, but was asking for comments or anything else they could add on to it...she here!

Interracial dating/marriage is fine by me. It doesn't seem to have that much more in the way of problems within the relationship. Communication and honesty is the core of any good relationship. If you're narrow minded about different things, let alone different races, you shouldn't get involved. I love the way racial features mix, and I think the racists that say that we're diluting the races by mixing are stupid. I think the best humans will come from of stirring the pot a bit, taking the good from everywhere.

Race is only an issue if the two of you let it be.

INTERRACIAL DATING/RELATIONSHIPS

This is a topic that people discuss about all the time. For me, INTERRACIAL DATING/RELATIONSHIPS is fine as long as you two don't bring any racial stuffs inbetween. I've had several friends who are ingaged in inter racial relationship, and they do joke about eachother's race at times. As long as it just stays in joke, its all cool. I think people would learn more outta eachother. They would have more harmony towards other races and would learn and adopt others' cultures. All people would start looking the fellowmen as another human being rather than black, white, or brown....chinese, mexican, or indian.

~peace~

Hey Kaly4nia:

I am glad that you brought this issue on Sajha.

At the beginning, people are just allured by the charm of knowing different culture, tradition, values and interests. Obviously, opposite attracts. But on the long run, with the constant stress of disimilarities, misunderstanding, mininterpretation and coping with two diverse race,culture and tradition, it is too overwhelming to cope with the daily routine tasks. On top of it, the relationship is a very complex matter to handle.

And who want to go through so much, you already have so much complexities in life, right????

In sum, I don't mind, but seeing several unforseen events (which I have a control over on the present situation) associated with vast racial or cultural gap, makes me think twice, thrice and ....

HD

त्यसो भे' त नेपाली नेपाली बिचमा नि त्यस्तो हुन सक्छ नि HD जी!!!
Nepal has soo many cultures and their own terms and regulations....Hoina ra???...I think most thing that matter is accepting each other as they are, and getting along with the new world creating own terms...
कि न'भे ब्रम्हचारी बस्नु परो रे क्या!!!...:D

Tehi ta bahnya...

I've never seen race in love, or people. I've always been attracted to worldly men with lots of brains, well spoken articulate, with strong opinions and philosophies. The warmth of love I feel with a man I think comes first from his eyes and secondly with the sound of his voice and what he has to say. Then the package and all the other stuff that comes along. I don't understand is oddities surrounding race, I don't think I could ever be with a man that hasn't traveled the planet a bit etc.

Cultural differences are a different story, but there are enough big common bonds to make those differences insignificant in the whole picture. It's hard finding love in this world... besides why marry someone so similar to yourself?

Hi Nirman:

I am sure someone gonna reply me from that perspective: I am glad that it is you, Nirman.

So long as Nepalese are concerned, we have ethnic diversities within our own country, but our sentiments, values, culture and tradition have some similar roots, we can handle that. But not the infinite dissimilarities as compared to Europeans or Americans, which, in fact is too overwhelming.

I am trying to analyze it as a realist rather than idealist...

Good point Nirman...

HD

As a matter of fact-

It is easier said than done....

Cultural differences can be challenging to work around, but not impossible obstacles.

Similarities and dissimilarities comes on all grounds regardless of race or one of its own kind. and on top of that Similarities and dissimilarities are like mix-masala of relationships; if the people are too similar, it ain't fun cause you both would be supporting each other. If you are totally not similar, it ain't fun either cause both of you will be arguing all the time. you need some love too!! Its always good to explore but its even better what or with whom you are comfortable with!!

Why do some people only care what others will think when choosing potential partners? I can imagine some narrow minded f*ckwit walking down the street, he spots a black/asian girl..."Wow she's gorgeous...shall I ask her out? Nah...people might point/stare/make a big deal" WTF??

I know what some people can be like, my friends for example, would laugh if I or one of the guys dated a black girl, even if it was Tyra f**king Banks. That sort of idiocy is one of the reasons they are ex-friends, but anyhoo, so what if other people sneer or snigger? Maybe I shouldn't be worried, because that means more women for you and me but it just bugs me. Black, white, asian, latino, blonde, brunette or red-head, I really couldn't give a rats-a** either way. If in my eyes she has a cute face and a nice personality then i'm interested. Simple.

Well HD,
It seems that we are talking about some love thing again...
In my perspective, I think, when u love someone, cultural difference become minor factor. I have seen tens if not hundreds of people who have intercast and interracial marriage and happily living. Its just barrier made by us,and breaked with strong will to survive together forever, happily ever after....
AND as Matrix said:
>>>Cultural differences are a different story, but there are enough big common bonds to make those differences insignificant in the whole picture. It's hard finding love in this world... besides why marry someone so similar to yourself? <<<
If u want to find someone similar to u, there won't be fun in the relationship...hoina ra...Life ma jiuna spice ni hunuparyo ni...and also Love is soo hard to find these days, why loose them just in sake of some boundaries we, the human, created oursleves...:)
Aani Poonte le chahin mero mann ko kura garyo..:D...hehe

kasto milya maan:P

Thanx to matrixrose for education : "The warmth of love I feel with a man I think comes first from his eyes and secondly with the sound of his voice and what he has to say"

Gwajyo baucha,
chha hwajyo na kha la?

damn,
gwajyo ta ladki po parichhe !

Hahahahahah!!!!!

Peace!Peace!peace!


*hibernates*

Why do u care hunny? Did I understand the meaning of ur nick 'wtf' correctly? lol
but u made me laugh. I'm both hwajyo n' gwajyo indeed.