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 What is the right age for marriage?

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Posted on 04-06-15 9:59 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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i know the answer may vary depending on personal preferences and priorties, but in general I would like to know what you guys think would be the right age for marriage. I am already 31 and yet I am not quite ready for conjugal responsibilities, but have lots of pressure from the family to get married. I am still studying and hopefully will finish in 2 years, so I want to wait till then. Do you guys think 33/34 or even 35 would be too late for marriage ? I have been looking for a girl for quite some time, but fkking god can't find a decent girl. I am already hopeless and I think I still need to spend good fkking year or two just looking for one. I don't want to rush and get married with any random girl, but good fkking god this is way tougher than what I initially thought of. Can you guys please share your experiences..

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Posted on 04-06-15 11:13 AM     [Snapshot: 110]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I am precisely on the same boat. Same problem as yours. The only difference is I am done with the studies, have a decent job. No freaking decent girl in sight for miles! I think it is never too late to get married. Better to be safe and late than sorry.
 
Posted on 04-06-15 11:30 AM     [Snapshot: 141]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Age is just a number. But IMO, sooner the better.
 
Posted on 04-06-15 11:43 AM     [Snapshot: 178]     Reply [Subscribe]
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32 is a magic number. Don't wail till 40 or later unless you are Rajesh Hamal. Or you will have to marry your laptop with Priya Rai on the screen saver.
 
Posted on 04-06-15 11:50 AM     [Snapshot: 199]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Not necessarily Mangale. Rajesh Dai has in fact set a new benchmark that is really tough to emulate. As far as laptop with Priya Rai is concerned, I would prefer one with Sunny leone instead. Thank you! ;)
 
Posted on 04-06-15 11:56 AM     [Snapshot: 224]     Reply [Subscribe]
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lamopuri,"No freaking decent girl in sight for miles! "
can you please explain your version of "Decent girl"?
 
Posted on 04-06-15 12:01 PM     [Snapshot: 234]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Sajhamitra, I don't know why you asking me this but I have my own definition of decent boy/girl which I do not need to share with anyone.
 
Posted on 04-06-15 12:03 PM     [Snapshot: 246]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Besides, Why didn't you ask the OP instead of me? I am rather perplexed since the OP had mentioned about 'decent girl' ahead of me. Just curious, you know!
 
Posted on 04-06-15 12:17 PM     [Snapshot: 212]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Once you finish college and start making steady income with any age of 25/26 is the best age to get married. You will have 4-5 years to enjoy your couple life (you will rush to make baby if you marry at Rajesh’s age). By the time you will be 29/30 may start having babies, they will grow gradually and will finish college before your midlife crisis starts. 

 
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Posted on 04-06-15 12:47 PM     [Snapshot: 337]     Reply [Subscribe]
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sooner the better, I would say for woman 19- 21 and man under 25,

Kids and spouse will never be your burden to pursue your education degree and career unlike we have in our mind, instead they are the source of encouragement and strength.


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Posted on 04-06-15 2:40 PM     [Snapshot: 493]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Thank you guys for the great comments. My def of good girl:
A girl who is willing to love you without any conditions, who will trust you and care for you. A girl who will accept your parents as her own parents. Definitely this also applies to guys as well.
My personal priority is the one who is a bit mature in terms of her thinking abilities and view points. One Who is also very ambitious and wants to do something in life and make her own identity.   I don't want to marry an adult with kids brain. Btw , marriage is not a contract and should be able to fall in love with the one who you are going to marry.
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Posted on 04-06-15 2:46 PM     [Snapshot: 513]     Reply [Subscribe]
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"Btw , marriage is not a contract and .."

Marriage, in fact, is a contract once it is registered in your jurisdiction. That's how the question of alimony arises upon divorce.

Michael Bolton sings "How can we be lovers if we can't be friends?". A marriage should have that foundation.


 
Posted on 04-06-15 3:17 PM     [Snapshot: 570]     Reply [Subscribe]
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किन बिहे गर्नु पर्यो तातो न झारो
संगै बस्ने, बच्चा हरु पाउने
that's it.
 
Posted on 04-06-15 3:55 PM     [Snapshot: 631]     Reply [Subscribe]
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धागो उनेको अनि यो उनैमा हामी हरु उनिदै छौ !
 
Posted on 04-06-15 6:23 PM     [Snapshot: 746]     Reply [Subscribe]
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मेरो विचार मा ३० वर्ष ठिक्क हुन्छ होला साएद !!!!
 
Posted on 04-08-15 4:35 PM     [Snapshot: 1098]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Lamopuri ra hydrogen bro.. bro haru ko ta sachai nai aber bhayecha ki jasto lagyo malai ta. Miles samma ni bhetiyena bhane ajhai miles thapne Kuro bha chha bro.. baru jutta chai naya kinum hai afu lai ni gadi lai ni.. 3 -4 jor nafatai ta k majja ayo ta bro... baru decent kt bhetyo ani jhyai parne bhaiyo bhane sajha batai bhaye ni nimto pam hai.. saala bihe khana napako pani juug bhayo bro..
 
Posted on 04-08-15 4:55 PM     [Snapshot: 1110]     Reply [Subscribe]
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From my experience if you are single girl (no bf) age 25+, it will start difficult to find a guy. Lot of my girl friends are around 30 who are done with their studies and have decent job are not getting Husband.
Its better to do everything in time than to regret in future :)
 
Posted on 04-08-15 5:00 PM     [Snapshot: 1119]     Reply [Subscribe]
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damauli_guy, "Lot of my girl friends are around 30 who are done with their studies and have decent job are not getting Husband."

Lot of your girl friends???? lol .damn man...How many do you have? :P
 



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