our parents are always om our case they want to no wat we r doin every sigle minute i mean they have a rite 2 da dat n i wouldn't mind if it was sometimes but they get worried about little things like if u go out 2 da movies wit ur friens they wanna no who they are if they are guys they get all mad and ask o he is a boy friend or something i mean can't a guy n a girl jusy be friends well mayb this mey not appli 2 the collage kidsbut us in school they are so nosy they want to no who u talk 2 they wavt 2 read ur e mail n every thing i mean its not like we r hiding anything from them rigth i mean if we compare us to them in our age the would me 1o times worse then us so why do hey get worried they came out good i mean we r kids this is our thime to have fun they have had there chance now it is ours!!!!! RIGHT???????????????????

nepalichick#1

My dad was and still is overprotective kinda person
with a really big ego and I was beaten up by him all
my childhood until early teens. I bore the burnt of
his temper for his his wish to see me become axactly what
he had intended me to become until my early teen years
of my life. For him may be that was the way to make me
not loose direction in my life. His intentions were
good but his way to achieve that goal was totally so
disgusting and deplorable.

These days my heart is torn in two between letting
that bitter experince and feeling go (for his good
intentions) or seek vengence (for bringing physically
and emotionally tramatic exerience to my most part of
my life) .

After I left my home four years ago my communication
with my dad is almost non-existent and all the
communication happens with my mom, my younger sister
and my younger brother. Emotionally I feel really
detached from my dad so now I have no idea even if he
had or has great intentions and wishes for me will
ever have any positive impact upon my life and my
future.

Before my parents could ever suspect I experiemnted with drugs, had gang fights and I left thee shitty stuffs far behind as it become clear that it was time to leave those shitty stuffs behind and my dad's fear that I'll someday beome some kind of drug addict or an alcoholic or a gambler or a womanizer or a criminal never came true.

Now I have goals to reach and some place I wish to be. I have a wishes to fullfil which my loved ones will adore and I have a dream to live.

My complaints towards my overprotective parents (for being over protective)
has susbided to most degree and I believe my parents fears for me for my well being has subsided as well.

May be one day I'll find out why and how parents become overprotective towards their childeren when I'll get married in few years and start to have children of my own. Proabably that's the best way to know WHY ??

chao

dyamn... where did my post go... it vanished...

dad are by definition scary ppl. i do not know why but i am still scared of him... i think its all out of respect rather than anything else.

mom are always go to person. but somehow i always went to my dad for all my problems but am still scared of him... [ i could never understand this].

anyway, last 2 weeks has been best time of my life. My dad decided to give me a part surprise. but it was fun. we went to casino. hiked. roamed around the city and stared at half naked grls.. (o: [last part was funny though]......

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all in nostalgia
but as always
what do I know?
[THIS I KNOW: our parents are over-protective and they build this shell around us which causes big rift later.. ]

OH MY GOD IT HAS BEEEN A LOOOOOONG TIME SINCE THE LAST POST BUT
IM NOT SCARED OF MY DAD
IM SCARED OF MY MOM
N nice : not 2 b mean but dat makes no sense at all 2 me

~NEPALI CHICK~

lol.. none of it made any sense 2 me also.

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as always a dumbo who says
what do I know? (o:

HAHAHAHAHAHA
U R FUNNY!!!!!!
I AM L.M.A.O.

who's scared of their parents,, what theee?? are your parents like monster haah LOL but I AM NOT scared with themm cuz ones you love aint scary riee??
I only respect them, I dont think they scare me, they show me the way of my life and i always agree with them on whats right or whats wrong... cuz they're out parents.. :)
...............If i feel lyk my boyfreind doesn't care about me, my freinds won't talk to that much any more.... i cant pay my cell ph bills.., i failed my test.. and i didd this.. did that..,,, any kinda trouble i make or have...i go talk to my parents about it and even so many secret stuffs, i go tell my mom, i'm so open... cuz they're the only one that can understand you on those moments so parents are very important....parents and freinds re totally different...!! My both guardains are Nepali and being a Nepali parents, they never forgot their culture and livings..., even if we don't live in Nepal, we still believe in the culture of Nepal, my parents are like so TALENTED, or what you call it... so RIGHT... that i wouldnt have any doubts while taking a step with their opinions.....
But yeaa... when it comes to RULEZZ.. who LIKES rulezz.... ruless always suck!! I hate rulez... we do NOT want rulezz but we NEED rules :)
buh when they used to go against me sometimes.. like i wanna go out and hang out with my freinds and they dont let me go or wanna knoe each of the freinds i go out with then yeaah i sure become mad and just wanna leave home and swear at my parents haah i DO thatt..but i don't go out..., i just stay inside my room and lock myself..thats the only way....now like I'm a nice daughter and I'm sure grown up to take care of myself.. ... they sure trust me now and they let me go wherever i want.. cuz they know, im not doing anything wrong :D ................so the most important thing you have to have in a parental life is to have TRUST and LOVE.. :)

Nepalichick..
Yea they sure wanna know what we do and where we go... CUZ they are our parents,, the ones that gave birth to us.. they protect uss... but not everything can be told to them when it comes ...but we ourselves have to say what we do and where we go .. cuz they wanna knoww what their children are doing and they dont want to have their children out of control right.. and that might end up BAD in the future,, you never know................
I don't know about your parents.. but my parents let me have a boyfreind and even wanna meet him and KNOW him if i make a new onee hehe... and yeah having a boy as a freind is nothing diff.. its the same.. donno about that.. yeah its our time right now.. but we cant take advantage of that and do whatever we want like wild .. and all.... but i really dont like NOSy parents...but asking about simple things like usuall stuffs.. where you going.. who's he.. and all those aint biggies ,, just answer them if its right.. cuz you know its not wrong.. right..
You don't get freedom like what kind? you dont wanna live with your parents or is it that they wanna knoe every damn thing about you.. and be nosy... well i donno about you living without parents but ..wanna know every single thingo... is like... sort of not nice but yeah may be they wanna protect you and may be they dont want you to hang out with some messed or spoiled people and end up being the same,, so they just wanna know whats going on and you should just introduce your freinds to your parents if they really wanna knoww.... and then they'll stop being nosy =D... i know its gay but since your parents wanna know,, you haVE TO tell :P thts my opinion.....hope you dont get offended on that OL but ya thats RIGHT...!!~

Nepalichick#1 Malai Lagcha Timro sajha Ko ID dekhera nai timro Parents haru le timi mathi ekdam Kada Vyevhaar Garna Vata Baadhya Vhaneka Hun :-)
Jusssss Kidding.......... ( or may be I am serious ) I donno LoL
Ani arko Kura malai tha cha Jaaba hami le Afnoo vhaneko Jasto Garna Paudainau Ani hami lai Lagna thalcha Ki parents realli Dont understand us.........
If we follow their Instructions its for our better ni ..........
I have seen so many nepali girls those who enjoy their freedom being in the circle I mean to say ..By not Taking Advantage of their Parents Trust........etc

ejuram..
wat do u mean???
i dont get it ????

I do not know what Ejuram meant but I think you need some spanking. Grow up.

highfly needs some spankings as well, he wants to get high and fly, he spends his all of the spare time in sajha posting messages and doesnt give any time to his owns, reminds me of bourne HMM !nvm the last one.
You guys are actually so stoopid, you guys didnt even understand what ejuram meant, how hard-type of people you guys might be OMG, he meant parents are good for us and we hafto follow their "INSTRUCTIONS" kyaa !!

I am so smart :D), my nose !

In the matter of Nepali Parents:

Good parents or Bad parents must be based on their Ethical, Social and National Patriotism or Country value.

You can not say your parents are good because they corrupt, rob and commit national as well as social crimes and feed you well.

You can not say that they are good just because they take cares you. I do not think that is right to give them good point.

That is totally 100% the worst parent of all time any corner of the world.

Good or the best Nepali Parents must be well stand on Ethically, Socially, Patriotism and Humanitarian. There is NO need political and Religious based.

I also agree some Nepali parents are very good, but not most of all.

So Re-Think and evaluate your parents.

That is what I am trying to say.

I agree with NepalTrue.

on Above, "Thapap" cool dude must read post by NepalTrue.

yah yah there are some parents that abuse their children omg sexually, verbally, mentally aaaaaaaandd eye-contact le hehe J/P.
dont bring this stupid political things noww, politics suck <.>_<.> :|

jptgyall,


I come here when I get bored at work. HEHEH. You can call me slacker. My comment was for the little girl who is pissed to have a perfect life.

Bro, my high days far gone. For real.

Nice and Nepaltrue, what about your parents? Why do you make all these assumptions??

i no i nooo

I am the best like real woman like name.

My parents is the best in this world.

a i don't need spankin' ok
i'm a gud grrl!!!!!!!!!!!

nepalis brothers are more nosy or nepalis parents?...ehehe...i was wondering

nice, I thought you were a Dude. But anyways, people are biased and ignores the other side of the story. Did you tried to look at the other side?

Nepalichck, it seems your parents are here in US and they are taking care of you. Thats really good. Just the imagine the life of 18 yrs old a freshman here in US having to work more 40 hrs per week with a full curse load. I seen lotta Nepalese like that. They are the one who are blessed. Just imagine the people in Nepal who has been forced to be part of ongoing violence and starvation.

You are lucky. Put it into a good worth. Do something if you can to help out the Nepalese in Nepal or US. Do something for yourself. Try to use your status to get success story going on. You seems to be too young and do not give a shit about it. But gurl, your parents had been really good to you. If you were my kid I would have kicked you out my house and make you earn your living.

So instead of whining, enjoy what God gave you. Thank God for that. Call me mean, but most of the white boys and black boys you will see you in the school they will try to head right to your pants. Thats the reality.

Peace