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Posted on 03-30-15 12:30 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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I am not sure what did you see in this video. Few people specially my female friends saying it's empowering women. I didn't see anything that's empowering or her talking woman equality and I am still not getting what she is trying to say. I am strong believer of equality not only between men and women but also between different caste and races. Can anyone here tell me what she is trying to say? At one point she even said..Have a sex outside of marriage, my choice. Lol.  What I understood from this video is we should not expect from our wives anything. Whether she comes at 4am or 6am in the morning we do not have right to ask them anything because it's their choice. Lol. Ok .  Please tell me what is her intention?. Sorry I am not judging her. I am just trying to educate myself and trying to understand what she is trying to say.


 
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Posted on 03-30-15 2:00 PM     [Snapshot: 890]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Here is a thought, and I am asking seriously: why would the choice not apply to sex-workers and their clients? Why is a woman (or a man) who willingly wants to make money by providing sex services not allowed to do so legally? I am not talking about intimidation, human trafficking etc. If we have two consenting adults, and one of them wants to be paid for the act, and the other is willing to do so, why is that choice between the two illegal?
 
Posted on 03-30-15 2:10 PM     [Snapshot: 911]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Cardinal, there are many "illegal" things that don't make sense logically. If paid sex is illegal, then why are pornographic movies allowed? The only difference between the two is presence of a camera.
Wonder why you brought this topic though? Did she say anything about it?
 
Posted on 03-30-15 2:38 PM     [Snapshot: 929]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Cardinal's comment caught my attention. I don't think any rational government, and for that matter any rational leader/lawmakers, in this world would make buying and selling sex illegal if they are free to make choice. The biggest thing is that there is huge lack of resources everywhere to restrict illegal activities that happen under the disguise or on the background of sex trade. You said 'no intimidation, no trafficking' etc, but there are other things like 'forceful drug addiction and then forceful sex trade- especially common in many developed countries, using under age people, inability to make right decision due to lack of education etc'- which are next to impossible to police. Ideally, I am a big supporter of making this thing legal, but given the circumstances now, I don't think anyone can make a strong point for it.

BTW, I was watching a 'sajha sawal clip' where adhibakta Sapana Malla was saying 'even the supreme court of Nepal don't consider this trade as illegal'. So, in Nepal's context, police and local administration have lots of discretion about it. And, usually they don't interfere unless a third party complain to police saying "these hotelwalas are creating social vice by allowing such and such activities". And, when they take the case to CDO, these cases are not strong at all.
 
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Where all the values, relationship, commitment have gone in this video. I know it's her choice to do whatever she want but how about keeping the values to the relationship, being committed, respecting each other company . I am telling in the support of both men and women. Having sex even after marriage is not a choice, it's the betrayal of commitment to the relationship, walking naked means where has the civilization gone what is the meaning of being civilized. This can be true in the show business to make money nowadays but not in the real world and should not be. Even out here in america if two people are in a relationship commitment and honesty plays a role. If one between two of them break that they leave each other. So being committed, respect each other, being civilized are the choices we should make not the other way around.
 
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@ JhilkeKancho...... Being civilized doesn't necessarily means you have to wear clothes. For example, Naga Babas and many Yogis in Nepal and India do not wear clothes and we cannot consider them as uncivilized. In America as well, there are naturalist who do not want to wear clothes. Eating with spoon, wearing clothes, driving car etc. are not the real means to show whether a society is civilized or not. The real test of a civilized nation is Love and Peace. Are we kind to people, are we kind to animals (this includes eating vegetarian food), are we kind to reptiles, are we kind to insects etc.
A non-vegetarian society is a barbarian society and cannot be considered civilized.
 
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sojoketo is into black and that's my CHOICE..
sajhasexy is into divorceyguy and that's his CHOICE
Nas(ey) is into priyanka and that's his/her CHOICE
Priyanka ain't care who the heck is Nas(ey) and that's her CHOICE

others...coming....
aile jhatta meeting ma gayera auchu
 
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yesto MY CHOICE bhanney syausi kt ko khoji ma chu ma ta....
 
Posted on 03-30-15 10:06 PM     [Snapshot: 1322]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Tunneling deep down to the core level of this "my choice" video,I happen to gather few things,which are such: Humans beings are capable of doing many great things but in modern time or in Kaliyuga,we succumb in all the vices like rape,fight,murder,hate,jealousy,envy and alles;Don't castigate others nor praise others for your own profit;let you be in good track and see how the cards fall in its proper place;Stop judging others for who they are and learn to accept alles for their own uniqueness--whether good or bad,we all reap what we sow and Karma is just so unbribable;if you happen to go wild and crazy by the surrounding people and by chance, ask the Lord,"What the people and world have come into?",the Lord with definitely smile and remark judicially "My son/daughter,have I not endure you too?" :)
 
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naak thoodi padunke, padne keti sali, priyanka choapada ko bangeko nose jasatai, duplicate of each other
 
Posted on 03-30-15 10:45 PM     [Snapshot: 1414]     Reply [Subscribe]
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but she is right, no woman is no man's leverage, she can go n fak or not fak anyone she likes or not even after marriage or before marriage
 
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मालपुवा चिलाको भन्छु म यो नाखार्मौली को .
 
Posted on 03-31-15 3:21 AM     [Snapshot: 1540]     Reply [Subscribe]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=48&v=VhjOnXGXpHo
 
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https://youtu.be/fHroffCtz-8
 
Posted on 03-31-15 10:55 PM     [Snapshot: 1825]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@ujl: whatever you are telling man about being civilized then does this video support that?Over
 
Posted on 04-02-15 7:21 PM     [Snapshot: 2173]     Reply [Subscribe]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zreYVcaCWyA
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Posted on 04-02-15 9:07 PM     [Snapshot: 2238]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Dhotini hanna man lagyo sofia hyat lai dhekera
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Posted on 04-03-15 10:11 AM     [Snapshot: 2447]     Reply [Subscribe]
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yo giordano ra tesko sakhasantaan jatatetai yo video ma dekha parchan ta..k ho yesto?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hgL6g9obLRw
 
Posted on 04-03-15 9:24 PM     [Snapshot: 2657]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@sojoketo

hasne bela vayeko ho? ta sala chakkkka yeha khub hero banchas....face to face bhetum aaija vanda mandainas.....tero didi ko chaak ma haneko machhiknne chakka....sala darpok thukka machis tero jindagi.... tero bahini ko mukh bata niskiyo re...
 
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@sojoketo

keeping up with ur sister in standing position.
 



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