babu auta _ Prasna....yo samaya philosophical hune belako haina hera....timi hami le nepal ma ni ke garna sakdainam and hamro jindagi ja samma lagcha tei f1 maintain garirachu bhandai ma jancha....hera testo koi cha bhane bihe gara.....bihe garesi maaya ta basihalla ni....haina ra....

Opppurtunity comes once in a lifetime.
Amen

 get married dude, if it works it works if not you'll end up with a green card and by 30 you'll have a citizenship too so you can bring a hotie from Nepal. if you don't get married this will hunt you down for a long long time, speically on times when you go to your ipo and treated like shytt, when you have to file your h1 etc etc.. you're case is genuine, love happens gradually.. just do it dude.. you're one lucky sob, to be honest. i personally think that white girls are hotter and funner than any avg Nepali girl.. just imagine how many Nepali guys would kill to be in your situation.. just do it dude, otherwise you'll regret for rest of your life and as far as Nepali parents , most of them think that marrying a white is a prestegeous thing , they might get mad if you marry someone from lower class fam but most Nepali parents now a days suffer from slavery mentality and feel proud to tell others they have a goree buharee who bows to their feet for blessing..s o go for it dudee.. and oh ya don't even think you're a lady killer and get anothe white girl if not this one.. this kinda things only happen once or twice for a Nepali dude, and their parents liking you too... you may not even find a gf a whiteone for another 10 years or so.. so becareful.. i have seen lots of Nepali dudes treating their white gf like shytt when they had chance and when they go away they become a total loser boka for years and years.. trust me on this one dude.. i've seen this drama for more than 14 yrs.. 

kalopani:  "you'll have a citizenship too so you can bring a hotie from Nepal" shame on you! 
@prasna : I wish I had someone to love me like that. If you think 'we'll see what future brings' that means you are taking her as a temporary thing. Marrying her will make your life much better. I'm not saying that because you'll get green card, citizenship and other shit. It's because she loves you (based on your explanation). All I have to say is marry her and stay together, bhaad me jaaye duniyawaale! 

I am married to white for about 7 yrs now. I have nothing but good thing to say about my wife and our marriage life.
I was on the same boat as you or even worse. My parent didn't even talk to me for about 2 yrs. Now, everything is normal and guess what, My wife don't even say one bad thing about my Parent after they treated us the way they did.
There are ups and down. She can't make Nepali dishes :( and can't speak Nepali but She is very true to heart and can't fight with my Mom (language barrier) :D

 what's there to be ashamed of ? it's a reality, he is entering in a good marriage with good faith but as we all know not all marriages end up forever and people do get devorced. if that's the case too he's still in a good shape.. thats a reality.. i couter shame to you for shaming a hard reality of life... 

Dude, I had same sitution few years ago though I already have GC n good job after Gradution but I choose the girl even my parents didnt accept her. If she really loves you don't worry about future cuz divorce ,seperation these all depend on how you treat to her >if you behave well n respect each other n above all if ur relation is based on true love I bet never that kind of down sitution will be come.Only thing you have to know is u gonna have to give up with many things, same for her. Be globally buddy,go for it.
last  but not the least  ,even you marry with a Nepali girl who can gurantee that there will be no divorce?? i have seen many cases of Nepali couples relationship is not going well...i

well....people like you who don't have any shame left inside won't feel ashamed. 
you can't guarantee that his marriage won't work, can you? he isn't even married yet and you are here talking about getting GC and a hottie from Nepal. if you can't give suggestions/hopes that'd make his marriage work, don't give your shitty ideas. 
if you start something with a wrong intention, it'll definitely go wrong 

Sala khate bachcha haru

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  if someone needs to feel ashamed then it's you who needs to come to sajha and hurl baseless philosophy on others just to feel important as mental mastrubation . before pressing me with false accusations, Where the fk did i say i give gurantee that this relationship won't work. I do wish him and all others in the world to find their soul mates, all i wanted to say was tell him to make a wise decision and marry the girl who loves him so much. Green card , citizenship etc etc are just icing on the cake for him since the girl who wants to marry happen to be a U.S citizen and he happens to be in F1 status.

 okay...you win. but you are a jerk. all you care about is greencard and a chick; you worthless piece of shit! get some morals and come back to sajha.

Get married, but put a proposal to the girl that 'You guys wont have babies untill you are 30". I am saying this - cuz by this time (i.e. around 7 yrs of marriage), both of you would be in better position to decide further about your future. Explain honestly to her - that you guys should be in stable position - financially and emotionally - before starting family; and it takes around seven - eight years, considering your current age and education level.

FYI, divorce results cuz of -
1. money matter (financial problems)
2. unfaithful activities of either partner.

If none of the above two issues arise in the course of next 7 years after getting married, then you guys are ready to have babies and start 'real' family. Hopefully you will also start loving her seriously ;) .. Otherwise, both of you will do what would be the best for each other..

Dhanya bhagwan. Esta khate haru lai Nepal bata bhagayera hamee Nepali nagarik haru lai dherai upakar garnu vayo. Aaba yo vrastacharee ko santan haru lai feri Nepali firta na pathaideenu hola. Sake samaa esta ko sakha santan lai nai Nepal baheera pathai deena hola. Anee matra Nepal ko pragati huncha

fk yur drkancho, i don't come here to win or lose. i say what i feel like and i don't thnk i was crossing my limits of respect to others. most Nepali people want green card and citizenship you dk head so what wrong about being realistic about it and unless someone is insecure loser like you who has completely give up the thought of getting a good bang in their life ,who wouldn't desire a good looking chick moron. you worthless sucm of society, you must be so insecure that you feel the need to come to sajha and preach us about morality. do us a favor and keep your insecurities to yourself

Another day !
another thread !
another quarrel !

 mukh chhodna kasle sikako? baaule ki aamale? ramro sanskaar payeko bhaye mann pari bolne thiyinas.
jahasamma malai insecure, getting a bang, girl, etc ko kura garis ni hero, ma harek aspect ma ta bhanda agadi chhu.
i'm an undergraduate- senior year and don't have a cent debt, good GPA, going to get a MD/PhD degree after this, have been in relationship for 6 years which is going to turn into marriage soon. greencard? i won't have to take regufe of american girl like you do to get that, if i wish,  i can easily get one after i complete my gradschool degree. i'm not worried about my future because i know what i can and will do. i don't think about getting greencard, wife, money, etc like you do because they are certain for me. 
how am i unsecure? pahila aafno situation analyze gar hero, aafu kattiko secure chhu bichar gar ani malai ayera unsecure, looser, etc bhan. ta jasta dherai dekheko chhu. kaam kehi garna sakdaina ani arulai looser, ani k k bhanyo, mukh chhadyo. malai ni aauchha ni tero jasto j payo tyahi bolna, tara limit hunchha k- whether you want to stay human or cross the line and become a dog. and you don't see that line because you have no brain.

maile yetti matra bhaneko ho ki bihe garne kura gardai chha prasna, uslai tyati maya garne khairi chhe, yesto belama greencard liyi, nepali taruni liyera aaija. who says that? perverts like you. kamm se kamm ramro sallah adinu ni, ramrosanga relationship establish gar bhannu ta kaha ho kaha gc liyera hottie lyaune re. USA aayepachhi ketiharule tiniharuko bfs laai chhodne tyasai hoina raichha. tajasta kalanka le garda ho. america aayeko k chha greencard bahek kehi dekhdaina, laaj lagnuparne talai. malai societyko bojh etc k k bhanna mann lagchha bhan, i don't care because that's not what i am. i know who i am  and i know who i should be. cheap dogs like you ain't making any difference because i don't give a shit about you and your perverted thoughts. 
bado aayo insecurities ko kura garne. 

p.s. i don't want to keep on quarreling with you; i have better things to focus on. so keep your shit to yourself. masanga bajhera 4 paisa ko ni aamdani garna sakdainas. ani malai tala dekhaula bhanera nasoche hunchha, you can't. 
Good luck and get well soon! 

 It's amazing how our Nepalese community selflessly   take out time to answer questions posted in sajha. It' really awesome. There is one thing you have to remember though ,  You can only take advice, but the decision has to be yours. There are few perks in marrying a white girl, and some mishaps. My suggestion for you is  to get as much advice as you can get, but the decision   has to be yours and yours alone-- After all nobody can feel your happiness nor pain, It's only you buddy ! 

U fkin kiddin me. This is called maal payera chal napaako

Do you know what you want to do? Go with your guts.