मेरी प्रेमिकले मेरो नजर चोरेर अर्कै केटो सँग मस्ती लडाईंराकी रैछे । हिजो एउटा मेरो मिल्ने साथीले भनेपछी म खङ्रङ भए । फेरी त्यो डाका हाम्राइ साझा साथी हो, तर यो पिचासले त्यो केटो सँग केइ गरिरा छ भन्ने रत्ती भर नै लागेको थिएन ।
प्रेमिका सँगको सोध्पुच पछी, उस्ले कुरा स्विकारी र आज बिहान उस्को र मेरो ४ बर्श लामो समबन्धको अन्त्य भयो । जहा सम्म मलाई लाग्छ, मैले उस्लाई सम्पूर्ण कुरा पुर्याइरहेको थिए । हरेक महिने सक्दा खेरी पैसा पनि दिन्थ्ए, कलेजको पैसा नि तिरिदिन्थ्ए । उस्को काम थिएन, त्यही भएर सहयोग गरथिए । मात्र घुम्न लाईइजना सकिरको थिएन, काम को ब्यस्तता ले ।
मलाई रिस उठिरको छ । प्रेमिका र त्यो साथी भनउदो सँग । मैले उस्को कलेजलाई तिरेको पैसा फिर्ता पाउन सक्छु कि सक्दिना होला ? सुझाब पाए आभरी हुने थिए ।
त्यसैगरि, मैले त्यो केटोलाई कानुनी दाएरा भित्र रहेर केहि मुद्दा चलाउन सक्छु कि सक्दिना ? नसक्ने भए, सारिरिक वा मानसिक हानी पुर्यौने कुनै उपाए चन भने बतइदिनु होला । त्यस्ले त्यो मेरो प्रेमिका हो भन्ने थाहा पाई पाई किन त्यसो गर्यो ?
जबा सम्मा त्यो केटो को ठेगान लाग्दैन, मेरो चित्त बुझ्ला जस्तो छैन । साथै, समुन्द्री जहाँज बाट नेपाल जाने तरिका के के हुन ?
Saathi free sex is always expensive. Paisa tirera sex garyo bahney $100 ley tanna garna painchha tara sex garna gf bhanayo bhaney sarai mahango parchha. keta macnehy bhayera k haresh khako US ma testa KT tanna painchhan . Baru timi aba playboy bhana ani Nepali keti ko hunt garna thala. Love ko chakkar ma paryau bhaney life dunchha USA ma.
Hya bro k tension li ra ko vanya. Paisa vanya testai ho. Dankauna pai halyau aba balai vayena. Get a new gal pal. As long as you got your 'thing' you will get its 'counter part'. Dont worry.
Dude Get Life.....
Why always we blame girls for cheating? How many guys might have had sex with other girls beside their girlfriend?
why No body writes when guy sleeps with [Disallowed String for - bad word]ing other girls? And when girls do that it becomes big issue.
Its her life and its her body. She has all right to sleep with any friend of yours or any one she wants to before marriage.
Get a life dude.
About money...you gave her money as a gift. If she would have asked money from you as a loan ya she should return it to you. otherwise u r screwed.
You cant claim anything from her as u acted stupid.
Life goes on dude......Go look for another girl.
Sarcasm is the service I like to provide free, and direct words are not suitable in ब्यङबिधा मा
You messed up, man. And you've got only yourself to blame for the situation that you're in right now.
I apologize for coming out strongly but seriously, what on Earth were you thinking when you were financially supporting her? What really prompted you to such folly, I really wonder.
Its been said that you can't trust with money, even if its your parents or relatives. When you lend it easily, like in your current case, you become a weak link. It reflects your weakness.I highly doubt your ex-girlfriend begged you to support you.
I've noticed that a number of Nepalese living in the States carry this massive ego that urges them to support their girlfriends financially in different levels. You go out to dinner, go on a date, go out bowling or clubbing, a guy's likely to reach for his pockets, find his CC and pay off the bills. This is what leads them to troubles later on. A girlfriend or even a significant other is just your other half. You gotta know when to control your vices. Fun is fun but when you overwhelm your girl with luxuries and riches, you're likely to be taken into granted.
Under most situations, its perfectly ok for a girl to help ease the financial burden.
Also, I've got doubts about the way your girl dumped you. There's gotta be something more to it than the story you're telling us.
Anyways, there's no point dwelling on the mishap. You gotta move on man. You've learned a life-long lesson, that's for sure. So from now on, unless she's the girl you're gonna spend your life with, don't ever make such foolish decisions.
मित्र, म मान्छु उस्लाई आर्थिक सहयोग मैले बिना करकाप नै गरेको हो। जब तिमी कोही सँग प्रेम गर्छौ, तिमी त्यो ब्यक्तीलाई पक्कै दु:ख भएको हेर्न सक्दैनौ उस्को काम थिएन, नेपाल बाट मगाउने अवस्था थिएन र मेरो राम्रै कमाइ हुँदा, आफ्नै हुने वाला श्रीमती हो भनेर सहयोग गर्न मन लाग्दैन होला त? कमिट्टेड रेलसन भनेको यही हैन त?
उस्ले कहिले पैसा मागिन, म नै दिन्थ्ए। घर को भाडा, बिल, ग्रोसरी मै तिर्थे। अब कमाइ नभाको प्रेमिका लाई तिर भन्न नि भएन नि। अब एस्तो धोखा हुन्छ भन्ने थाहा भये उस्को नजिक नै आउँदैन थिए नि।
राजकेदार जि, म मान्छु मान्छे को बाच्ने अधिकार हुन्छ र स्वतन्त्रता उस्ले रोज्ने छुट नि हुन्छ, तर जब परिवार सबैलाई थाहा दिएर, बिहे गर्ने बाचा गरेर एसै उम्कन त मिल्दैन नि, हैन? ठीक छ, प्रेमिका मात्र बन्ने तर बिहे नगरने भनेको भये सारा संसारलाई मेरो हुनेवाला भन्दै चाइनाउदैन हिड्दैन थिए होला।
मलाई अरुको थाहा छैन, तर उनी मेरो पहिलो प्रेमिका थियिन। अरु कुनै किसिमको अनैतीक काम गर्दै, बेश्याहरु सँग संपर्क राख्दै म कैले हिंडेको छैन। यो उन्लाई नि थाहा छ।हाम्रो सम्बन्ध बिग्रिनु पर्ने आवश्यकता मैले देखिराको छैन। बर्षमा २-३ चोटि साधारण झगडा हुन्थ्यो, तर मात्रा २-३ घण्टा को लागि। यो स्वाभाबिक हो। एक जना ले कमाउने भएपनी आर्थिक तथा सामाजिक स्थिती हाम्रो राम्रै थियो। ४ बर्ष को सम्बन्ध म मान्छु पहिले लव पर्न लाग्दा जस्तो भन्दा धेरै फरक हुन्छ।
तर ४ बर्षमा नि मैले चिन्न सकिन, यो कस्तो जात हो मान्छे को?
That being the case, i feel for you man but there's very little you could do now except move on...
I hope you don't plan to avenge...
Fokatiya
JE HUNNU BHAYISAKYO , ABA KEHI GARNA SAKINDAINA...JE BHAYO BHAYO BHANERA USAI SANGA BIHE GARA YETIKKA MAYA GARNE HO BHANE. BITEKKA KURA BIRSERA MAFFI DEU KETI LAI.
USLAI PANI TIMRO SATHI LE LALAYI FAKAYI BITAYEKO HOLA....USKO KE DOSH ...
FANDA MA PARECHHI KASKO K LAGCHHA.
BITAYE MORA SALE GADHA BHANNE BASA.
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dude, i am sorry for you coz i know how it feels. I was in same kinda situation but i am trying to move on. testo biatch haruko ta satyanash hos....baru milcha vane tyo kti ko tasbir sabaiko maaj dekhaidiye huncha....kukurni haru....
Ho ho. Akhir baalai vayena
Hera brother, char barsa ko maaya khera nafala....kt lai chodideu....tyo lunthe ko sakchau bhane turi kata haina bhane dui char lapeta ta hana yar
Post her information here. Let people know who she is.
मलाई पुर्व प्रेमिका प्रती घ्रिना छैन, त्यही केटो प्रती मात्र हो। त्यसैले उस्को फोटो गूगलबाट लिएर यहाँ राख्दैछु।
निलकन्थ बन्जारा
01/26/2011
अपडेट:
आज चिट्ठिमा औठी पाइयो, साथै उनको लागी खर्च गरेको पैसा ब्याज सहित पाइने आश्वासन पनि ।
दुनिया गज्जब छ । अब पनसपमा गएर औठी बेच्नु पर्ला र यही जाठोलाई कन्डम किन भनेर पठाइदिनुपर्ला ।
Last edited: 27-Jan-11 04:59 PM
Fokatiya bro,
This is not the end of the world. Let her go. That bitch does not suit you. Never ever think about forgivig her, she will take it as your weakness but not your greatness. Who cheats you once cheats you everytime. Forget that bitch and take it easy.....someone way better is awaiting you.
TCU PADHNE JASTO CHHA NI?
Yehi ho tyo chikuwa.............
hya mitra , bhuli deu tyo keti.. malai ta keti andhi rahicha jasto po lagna thalyo ;)
के अब बिचरा भएर र साझामा कुरुवा भएर बस्ने बिचार गरेको हो भने तेस्ले तिम्लाई छोडेको मा केही गल्ती गरिन जस्तो लाग्छ । उनी आफ्नो बाटो लीईन अब तिम्रो पालो आफ्नो बाटो लिने , सन्तानवा खोजी बस्यौ भने तिमीलाई त्यो गाल्लिको कुरुवा भुस्या भन्लान , अगी बड आफ्नो बाटो लाग .
तुहुरो भएका छैनउ अनी दुधे बालक पनि हैनउ , पुरुष हौ भने देखाउ पौरुसत्व
Last edited: 23-Jan-11 02:39 PM
I think I know him, is he from California Area? Could you tell us his name?
Fokatiya,
The best thing you can do is move on. I know its gonna be very very tough for you, especially if it is your first serious relationship. But, trust me, time is the greatest healer and best thing is to move on. Spend your time/anger in productive work, such as workout. Its very likely that you two will never be a good friends and she will not come back to you either. Even at this time, you may want her back, it may not turn out to be a good decision, as you bound to remeber about her infidelity. Therefore, i suggest you to move on, I know its hard, but eventually you will be fine. For the time being, do not do anything harm to yourself.
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